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  1. M

    In a relationship with someone with BPD

    Hi all and thanks for the look. I've been dating my current girlfriend for 7 months now. Once we started dating, she was very upfront about suffering from anxiety and had been treated for depression. She is also in recovery, over a yr now, she's an alcoholic. I'm not sure if it's BPD, she...
  2. M

    Romantic relationship with girlfriend suffering from anxiety

    Hi all and thanks for the look. I've been dating my current girlfriend for 7 months now. Once we started dating, she was very upfront about suffering from anxiety and had been treated for depression. She is also in recovery, over a yr now, she's an alcoholic. She's suffered some childhood...
  3. S

    Potentially suicidal boyfriend's controlling behaviour.

    Hello all, Last year I was in a relationship with an artist who was helping me work on a large scale commercial project. She's a close friend of many years and has always been a fast and reliable worker. Unfortunately, it all came crashing down this time last year. Ever since her last...
  4. J

    Desperately seeking help and advice about lying - LONG

    Hi all, I really didn't know where to turn to so I thought I'd try this for any experiences that people may have had with a situation similar to mine. This is about someone that suffers from compulsive/pathological lying and how I can help this person. Ok, so.. my partner and I have been...
  5. R

    I feel like she died but she didn't

    My mother's health has gotten really bad and now she has dementia. She was at my place visiting in July and she was not feeling well and had back pains. She just wasn't herself at all. She stayed a few days like she usually did and then said she felt alright and wanted me to take her home so I...
  6. D

    Don't know how to stop

    I feel I'm pushing everyone away. I'm distant with my friends and family. But worst of all is how I keep getting angery at my girlfriend for every bit of critisism. If she says my hair is too messy to meet her friends, I take it as an attack. She's all but dumped me at this point and I don't...
  7. J

    Obsessive note taking ocd?

    I always thought my mum's note taking was to help her remeber things, but its gradually got worse and more obsessive over the years. She writes notes for things as simple as shopping lists, bills, peoples names, conversations, numbers, conversations good /bad, things that have upset her and...
  8. S

    Girlfriend's Lies....

    Now everytime me and my girlfriend argue, I've notificed she lies to everyone around her. I'll admit I looked at her messages, a big no-no I know! But knowing how she is I knew I needed to see what she'd been saying about me. So this entire week we'd been arguing, about not spending Christmas...
  9. D

    Is she Really On Drugs?

    My sister diagnosed with with BPD and she lies, emotionally bullies and begs my mum for money, and obviously my mum gives in. Usually she'll say she needs the money for food or to get a bus back to where ever she's staying. We've suspected she has been using the money for drugs or alcohol but...
  10. D

    What's the solution?

    Apparently my sister has bpd, she's in her mid 30s now and has always caused problems. A couple of years ago she lost her flat because the landlord was selling it, so she ended up sleeping on 'friend's' sofas. She is unemployed and has been for many years, so she emotionally bullies my mum...
  11. W

    Worried About My Wife

    Sorry in advance for the long post... I'm not sure if I'm in the right place or if this'll be welcomed here, but I really need some discreet advice. It wasn't until recently that I considered that my wife could be bipolar because the symptoms don't seem to be severe, but this comes from 6.5...
  12. D

    What To Do?

    Hi all, Hope someone can help. My sister apparently has BPD. She doesn't live at home but in charity housing and is on benefits. For the last 2 years she has been an utter nightmare. She constantly harasses my mum for money and threatens to kill herself if she isn't given it or she makes up...
  13. C

    I think my mum is toxic

    Hello all. It's 4.45am and while my kids are asleep I want to try and put into words how I feel. I hope I can find some answers on here. I don't find it easy to explain my mum. I'm 29 and it was four years ago when I was expecting my first child all these feelings came out. My mum made me feel...
  14. D

    My adult daughter.. Severe depression and anxiety..

    My 23 yr old daughter lives with me and has depression and anxiety and although not officially diagnosed, we feel (and so does she) that she may be bipolar. She is on an anti-depressant as well as an anti-anxiety med and most recently was put on a mood stabilizer. The problem is she's terrible...
  15. T

    I Just Need To Get This Out

    Ok, first of all I feel so stupid, I'm a 50+ male that apart from feeling down when my mum died I have never had any mental health concern. But I just feel as if I need to reach out. I guess with my girlfriend I've always believed that I am punching above my weight, we have been together for 9...
  16. A

    How far does bpd affect memory

    My partner has bpd I recently found a message on her fb from an ex, she's told me this ex was emotionally abusive. Now the messages wernt bad in fact I wasn't suspicious until I found who he was. It was friendly and she ended up giving him his number because she was running out of 4g. When I...
  17. W

    Friend just been diagnosed with BPD - some advice

    Hey all, a close friend and mutual support person has been going through some tough times recently and has just been diagnosed with BPD this week. She's been a rock for me when I've had bad times and I have been there for her, recently had to go wait outside her work and get her and she's had...
  18. Poopy Doll

    Looking for Fairy Lu

    The forum says you don't accept private messages. I haven't seen you on the forum lately. I hope you are okay. Most days I think of calling my mother. I use to call her every day. But she passed September 24 and I can't call her ever again. I know she's in heaven/paradise/astral plane and...
  19. K

    Girlfriend stops all contact

    Hello everyone, I dealt with bad depression in 2017 and last few days I've felt it again so I've just joined this website. I am struggling to understand a recent situation and I'm very anxious and struggling. I'm 35 with everything going for me, house, car, financial security etc but I feel...
  20. N

    sister

    I have a sister i used to be really close with and shes been totally distant. she knows i have depression and anxiety and she knows i would love more than anything to go out with her one evening so i could have some company and forget about things for a little... well she always has an excuse...
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