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  1. prettyflower

    Emotional Abuse by Family?

    I am extremely depressed and anxious. My mom and older sister are controlling me and possibly emotionally abusive? I have been questioning my sexuality and gender identity since high school. A few years ago when I was in high school my older sister read my diary. She told my other sister what...
  2. P

    Shame

    Does anyone have a life of shame? I'll try not to explain too much detail, but since i was 18 (62 now), i'll had to cope with it. When the shame began, it was like in a matter of only 3 days time. I just hit me like a sunami. My mind became flooded with very vivid and explicit sexual thoughts...
  3. L

    Need help and guidance.

    Hi everyone, I have joined this forum as I have reached a breaking point with my mental health. I am a 21 old gay male, and am having issues with depression, body dysmorphia/eating and most recently gender identity issues. I have never been diagnosed by a professional so not sure what to say...
  4. T

    HOCD is ruining my life

    I am 26 year old straight male who by my own admission, has always had a high libido, and a collection of kinks (incest, bondage, domination/submission, etc). Recently however, one of those random kinks suddenly began driving me crazy. I had a thought of myself as a woman during sex once during...
  5. L

    Flatmate is trying to mess with my head

    I recently moved into a flat like 7 weeks ago and now I'm stuck until November with a person who is completely different to who I thought they were. They were really lovely at the beginning and I was excited to move in, but it turned out that they are awful. They are mentally ill as well as...
  6. M

    Struggling with anxiety but don't know how to get help

    Hello everyone, This is my first time writing anything about my mental health, so apologies if it's in the wrong place, but I'm really struggling right now and I don't know what to do. I'm a 20 year old gay male, and for the last few years I have been experiencing waves of intense periods...
  7. G

    I feel bad. Should I?

    I'm having a bit of an issue with my mother and I don't know if I should feel bad. I feel like I let her down but at the same time I feel like it's unfair that she has expectations and dreams based on someone else's life, even though it's a common thing. Basically I'm bisexual and my brother...
  8. K

    Do I have HOCD relating to my sexuality?

    I know that at the end of the day, I know what my sexuality is. But I'm caught up in a worldwind of feelings, and I just need to know if what I'm experiencing is in fact some form of OCD, or if I'm just in the closet. Me: I'm a 22 year old female. In the past, I have only been interested in...
  9. F

    Solutions for sexual sadism? *TW*

    Hello, I'm posting here because I want help with something that I can't tell anyone about in real life. *Please understand I have never acted and will never intentionally hurt any other human animal or nonhuman animal.* This is more to do with how it affects me. As you already know I am a...
  10. mark payne

    it's get worse i need serious help plz!

    I posted about this before but the help i get wasn't enough and it make it even worse and i kinda become suicidal cause of a thought! so please guys again just don't ignore it and post replies as much as you can i know i maybe be annoying but i swear i need help!! i have panic attacks from two...
  11. AndyfromScotland

    Why I am worthless

    A couple of nights ago I was speaking to a girl and we kissed. Then last night I met a girl who was beautiful, kind, funny and listened to me. It's now Monday night and I have no tablets because the police took them away last night. I'm £60 pounds short of a loan I owe and this is it really...
  12. AndyfromScotland

    Sexuality issues making me anxious

    Hi folks, I haven't posted in a good while I hope everyone is okay. A few years back when I was assaulted, I had questions over my sexuality and they are arising again an it's playing with my mind. My GP is very religious and I don't know who else to tell... I'm a bit embarrassed about the...
  13. raquelmaria15

    Relapsed after 3 months clean

    I had a bad argument with my mother about my bisexuality. it was sudden, I wasn't expecting it, and it hurt me a lot. then I started to repress my hurt feelings, then I felt nothing, and I just knew it was going to happen. I knew I was going to SH and I did nothing to stop it. Hopefully, this...
  14. F

    Newbie Advice on a discrete concern

    Hi Everyone, I just joined today because I've been noticing a trend with my emotional behavior lately. I have searched the web and can't find anything to guide me, so I thought I would find a friendly forum hoping someone can help me along. This is a fairly discrete topic pertaining to...
  15. A

    Depressed about sexuality and other things

    Hi I'm a 21 year old male and I know I'm not straight. But what I don't know is whether I'm gay or bi, but I think I'm more likely to be gay. To tell the truth, I'm a virgin. I've never been in a serious relationship with anyone. I didn't have any interest in sex or relationships in my teenage...
  16. M

    Pornography Addiction and Weird Sexual Experiences leading to Depression and Self Hate

    Pornography Addiction and Weird Sexual Experiences leading to Depression and Self Hate This is my first post here on this site and after looking around. Im a 20 year old male, Im not really sure where else to put this so here it goes. Honestly I think porn was only a small part of the problem...
  17. T

    My life story: Sexuality/Religion/Personal issues (It is LONG FYI) Do I have an anxiety disorder or depression what is it?

    My life story: Sexuality/Religion/Personal issues (It is LONG FYI) Do I have an anxiety disorder or depression what is it? Thank you for reading this I appreciate it! Spilling this out has been theraputic for me. I dont have to tell this to people face to face only by internet I had ADHD...
  18. T

    My life story! I need someone to talk too! Religion/Sexuality/Emotions I need some advice.

    My life story! I need someone to talk too! Religion/Sexuality/Emotions I need some advice. Sorry this is long but it is my life story I had ADHD -combined type Inattentive&hyperactive. However as I got older its more inattentive than hyperactive and I also have a mild mixed...
  19. T

    What is wrong with me? I have so many issues! Do I have hypochondria? Not trolling either! My story its LONG but I can use advice please

    What is wrong with me? I have so many issues! Do I have hypochondria? Not trolling either! My story its LONG but I can use advice please i messed up ill make another one wrong section
  20. kkkkkk

    Perhaps inable to feel an emotional connection to someone? Inability to love? So confused.

    Perhaps inable to feel an emotional connection to someone? Inability to love? So confused. I am unsure if I have the ability to love someone. My entire premise of feelings has been based on a sequence of facts my entire life. I am very confused and really would like some answers to what I am...
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