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  1. N

    Recent diagnosis

    Hi I am a new user. I’m 21 and only just been diagnosed with bpd. It’s been a long road to get here and my symptoms have been more and more severe recently. Impulsivity has been at a high I’ve bleached and died my hair a multitude of times in the past two weeks. I went for a piercing today. I’m...
  2. K

    I don't know why I self harm

    I've been self harming for about 6 months now and I haven't told a single person about it. I feel so alone. I just wish that I knew why I do it. I don't think I have depression or anxiety, I just feel empty and isolated all the time. I always self harm when I feel the most empty and it somehow...
  3. J

    Hey all

    So I'm new to the forum, thought it would be a good place for me to read about others expierences as well as dicussing some of my own worries. I'm a 22 year old woman and self harmed for a long time but I haven't self harmed in 4 years now! Minus one incident
  4. J

    Anyway to make self harm scars fade more?

    Hey all, so it's been almost 4 years since I have self harmed ( I'm 22) and as strange as this might sound I only really noticed and fully grasped the scars on my arms 5 months ago, I have tried using bio oil for the last 3 months but read that if scars are white that they won't fade anymore...
  5. C

    It never gets better?

    I went 17 days without hurting myself, which is the longest I've gone in months. I really hate myself, and hate myself for continuing to do this. The last time I hurt myself it got infected, which is why I think I was able to stop myself for so long. But yesterday I couldn't get out of bed. I...
  6. Justafriend95

    Going bad

    Feel so alone. So empty and useless. I can only cry at the moment. I'm scared of myself.. don't know what I'm doing.. making wrong choices.. want it to stop!!
  7. N

    Adult self-harm/OCD help in Northumberland?

    Please could someone tell me if there is a specialist service accepting Northumberland referrals for adults with self-harming OCD? I managed to confess my struggle to a GP, but she was dumbfounded, because it's an odd thing she didn't know about and she told me there was no specialist service...
  8. U

    I don’t know what to do with my life

    I don’t know what to do I have nothing on the earth to live for anymore no one loves I hate myself no one needs me and I keep getting suicidal thoughts and I self harm I’m just alone. I don’t necessarily want to die but I don’t want to live if that makes sense to anyone
  9. N

    Self harm thoughts

    I am just over 5 months self harm free but I'm starting to really struggle at the moment with self harm thoughts and finding it hard to block the thoughts out. I use to ping a elastic band on my wrist but it's not working anymore more with the thoughts being so much more often. I don't know...
  10. Kepraell

    Am I being emotionally manipulated, is it their bpd or mine?

    This topic might be hard for people. But I seriously need to find advice on this. [tw: self harm mention] I have bpd. I am currently in a relationship with a girl who’s studying psychology, knows a fair bit about bpd and is very understanding. She’s polyamorous. I’m perfectly happy with her...
  11. T

    I can't do this anymore...someone please help

    I've been diagnosed with anxiety and panic disorder and have had CBT (which made no difference at all) and in the last month I have gotten so depressed and down. I'm scared to go to my GP again incase he says there is nothing wrong with me (about the depression) but I know what I'm feeling is...
  12. Foxjo

    Hollyoaks triggering me badly

    Wondered how many other people are being triggered by Lily's self harm story line on Hollyoaks. It is really making my urges unbearable. Just in need of some support right now. Hugs Fox
  13. S

    Is my friend harming herself?

    So I have this friend and whenever she's not feeling well she injures herself. Is this considerd self harm? And how can I help her?
  14. N

    Introducing me

    Hi I have social anxiety. I have had it for about 8 years, I still really struggle with asking questions and starting conversations during social situations.
  15. C

    Zero motivation

    I am at what people claim is the most crucial point in my life. I recently graduated highschool and I was preparing for various college entrances. However now I have zero motivation for anything. I had self harm issues a while back and now they have returned along with panic attacks. I cannot...
  16. E

    We are Ell (DID)

    Hi. My name is Mariel, but I'm many persons at the same time some of them are just kids, like Diplo who is 4 years old or Miriam who is 7 years old, other ones are aggressive adults like K2, he is the worst. Our body is 17 years old. We always have discussions in our head and we even have our...
  17. O

    Help, advice please? Clinical negligence?

    I got diagnosed with adult adhd in Dorset. This upset me cos then suddenly I saw my whole personality and being as just a bunch of symptoms that add up to a neurosis instead of a person, but after a few weeks I got past that and accepted ADHD as just part of me instead of the other way round...
  18. K

    Hi :) (I’m new)

    Hi, I don’t yet know what I hope to find from this page, but I have depression, suicidal thoughts and I self harm.. maybe I can find someone to talk to and someone I can help too :)
  19. V

    Alone for the rest of my life

    Hello, it is weird that I want to be alone for the rest of my life? I got split with two of my friends in May last year and I don't want to come back to them because they're toxic af and one of them still sends me snaps about how wonderful her life is. After that all stuff that happened in my...
  20. L

    Long term fluoxetine use and suicidal ideation

    Hi all I have been on fluoxetine a long time on and off. My dose was upped in November 2018 due to crippling anxiety and depression to the point where I was off work. I did feel it helped initially but recently I’ve been having horrible thoughts about self harm/suicide. I haven’t and don’t think...