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  1. E

    When can a patient have a personal relationship with their therapist?

    My psychiatric nurse was cut out of my care due to the fact that i contacted him on social media and it apparently breached the ethical code. He isn’t allowed contact currently when will we be legally allowed to speak again without repercussions? When I get discharged from their services? When...
  2. E

    when will my psychiatric nurse be legally allowed to talk to me again? help?!

    I have an appointment with my psychiatrist on October 14th and I also asked her this question and she told me that she would get back to me my psychiatric nurse’s manager split us up and he has been told to have no contact. my psychiatrist said that the reason we can’t have contact is because...
  3. E

    Do these fleeting thoughts classify as mood swings?

    Within seconds or minutes my mind changes from “let’s move forward, go to college, work hard and get a good job and better yourself” and then the next moment it says “don’t bother you’ll be dead soon, enjoy the remaining months of your life” And I have episodes of crying, irritability and...
  4. E

    I don’t know much about trains and I’m very anxious... help?

    Tomorrow I’m heading out to hopefully get to the train station around 10AM at the latest. I’m getting the train from where I am to London (about 2 hours 30 minutes away on a train) but the train I want to get departs from the station I’m going to, then it heads to the city centre and then goes...
  5. E

    What has happened to him? I need some advice? I’m stressed out!

    Nick (my ex psychiatric nurse) used to pass me in the way to work of the morning every now and then. I’m also friends with his sister on Facebook but I do not know her personally. I look often to see if he has liked his friends posts as that is a great indication that he had been active and...
  6. A

    To Be or Not To Be

    I went to the doctor for the first time in months, as I realized I probably should go back on medication before I completely lose it. I just went to my regular family doctor, as I had seen the other doctor on-site give my friend antidepressants. We had never discussed my mental health or what I...
  7. E

    What mental disorder/illness does this sound like to you?

    I am aware something is wrong with me but I can’t put my finger on what it is. I am conscious of this issue considering it has been present for a little over 6 years now but the past 3 years have been the worst. • when I feel hurt/insecure in a relationship, I lash out in anger and start...
  8. E

    Can someone help me out quickly please? What does this mean? I’m very upset.

    This is about my psychiatric nurse... This was ages ago. I told him that I was uncomfortable by his remarks e.g “you’re attractive” and “what’s not to like about you?” and firstly, he acknowledged it and he claimed he wouldn’t mention it again. Weeks later, I saw him again and he said “I was...
  9. Justafriend95

    Going bad

    Feel so alone. So empty and useless. I can only cry at the moment. I'm scared of myself.. don't know what I'm doing.. making wrong choices.. want it to stop!!
  10. KarenP51

    My husband left me and our 4 kids for a MUCH younger woman

    My husband of 29 years (who I have 4 kids with) left me for a 18 yr old three months ago, my neighbour is still in contact with my husband and I found out last night that she was pregnant. I don’t know how to feel, I’m upset but at the same time I’m glad he’s gone. We were close throughout the...
  11. K

    Can’t I just feel normal?

    It seems like my life is progressing, and I’m just sitting back & watching it all happen, not involved, not helping, just here, behind the curtain watching. But it’s me, it’s my voice I hear talking to people and my peppy little happy tone... but it’s also not ME. I feel like I have been in...
  12. C

    Confused, lost, overwhelmed... Who knows but you really just want to cry!

    So almost 2 years ago I had a counselor suggest I had BPD... Without much of a thought I dismissed her. Over the past year I have struggled with myself, my identity and most of all with my relationships. I feel so disconected and unable to put into word how hopeless and stuck I feel. Was I...
  13. T

    Boyfriend with agoraphobia, panic disorder, social anxiety, anxiety

    Hi everyone, I’m not sure this is the right forum to post this but it would be wonderful to get some insight and advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for three-and-a-half years. We are best friends, understand one another and love each other very much. But we are at a crossroads...
  14. L

    Just one more sad girl.

    Hey guys. I would love to be posting about some happy subject, but unfortunately I havent been able to feel happy in a long while. Maybe (probably) Im exaggerating, cause I dont have one simple reason to be sad. Im just, you know, always sad, even when I should be happy. Basically, Im a 19...
  15. M

    My story...idk

    Hey, so uhhhm English is not my first language so i apologize in advance for any weirdly structured sentences or grammar errors and also for the lenght of this post. My name is Matthew (english version of my name) and i'm a depressed, Bi teen from slovakia. I've been struggling with deppresion...
  16. L

    Sad/angry and confused?

    Hey guys! I'm extremely new to this and possibly trying these forums out to see if anyone can help me before I go see a doctor. To start off I'd like to say I am a 21 year old female who has had depression and anxiety for some time. I'd like to estimate around age 13 to present I am a recluse I...
  17. Urban Hermit

    So tired of pretending 😔

    I'm so tired of pretending to be ok, that I'm emotional exhausted. So ive ended up coming back to live with my parents, which as a 42 year old man is a shock to the system. Don't get me wrong, my parents are supportive and I wouldn't be here now if it wasn't for them. So after things fell...
  18. whiteflags330

    Cold Turkey

    I had to go cold turkey from my meds because my doctor won't fill my scripts until I see psychiatrist and I've been having self harming and other bad thoughts. I have grounding techniques and usually too tired to do anything, but it's constantly on my mind since I stopped my meds and alcohol...
  19. U

    I'm just tired of everything

    Hi there, this is the first time I'm posting something here.. I'm an 18-year-old student and I've been living on my own since the beginning of this school year. I never really had to do anything for school to get trough it, so I never did anything. This year however I started uni and living on...
  20. D


    Hello my name is (MrE) and I've been depressed all my life I'm married and have a decent life but I've allways wanted to die.... I feel things would work out better for everyone in my life if I just wasn't around to top it off I have OCD and ADHD and can't find a second to just relax and have...