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relationship anxiety

  1. R

    THE POST IS VERY LONG BUT PLZ READ. IS THIS REALLY ROCD. WHAT DO I DO. SUDDEN URGES TO LEAVE, UNATTRACTIVE BOYFRIEND, NOT ANXIOUS ANYMORE? I'M DOOMED

    Hey everyone. On may 1st i started having these thoughts about "what if I don't love him" " what if you fall out of love for him" " what if you find another guy attractive" "what if u fall in love with your bf's brother" " what if u cheat on him" etc etc. So...
  2. B

    Im in a relationship with someone who has anxiety

    Ive been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over a year now but she's recently had a bad spell of anxiety. Shes still going through it at this point. Its coming up to a week now and she hasnt wanted to see me. She means so much to me and it tears me up inside everytime this happens. Im...
  3. B

    Relationship anxiety

    Hello, I’m 20 years old, I’m currently with my boyfriend of 5 months but also talking about the same thing that happened with my previous and first boyfriend of 1 and a half years. I don’t know if it is relationship anxiety as such but ever since getting in my first relationship, 75% of the time...
  4. L

    Relationship Anxiety?

    My boyfriend and I broke up in November but we did stay in contact. He broke up with me. He recently came back about 3 weeks ago and initially I refused to talk to him but he kept insisting I'm the love of his life and he will do whatever it takes to get me back. I caved and I was pretty happy...
  5. Hera017

    How to cope with anxiety attacks?

    I was with my boyfriend for 4 years then he broke up with me because we were young and stupid and didn't know how to handle so much love, it has been three years since we broke up, we talked in those years but stopped, last week I started talking to him again and we both still love each other we...
  6. D

    I don’t want to feel this way. I feel so alone. I do not have any friends.

    My mother left my dad when I was a little girl. He wanted her to feel the pain he felt, but she didn’t love him anymore so he used me to do it. I was three or four years old when they split up. He would tell me that she didn’t love me and that the only reason she was trying to get custody of me...
  7. N

    Relationship anxiety

    Hello, i've introduced myself yesterday but I thought to post my issue directly in the Anxiety Forum - I've been reading a few posts and it's so informative especially about intrusive thoughts, thank you all for sharing, I am so happy I found this place to share experiences and opinions! I...
  8. N

    Hello anxiety my old friend

    Hello everyone! I decided to join this forum after a month of severe anxiety. I'll describe my situation in detail, hope it can resonate (and to get some advice!) I have been suffering from anxiety and panic disorder since I was a teenager. And since I was a teenager I also dated the same...
  9. S

    Fear of voices harming my relationship.

    I've been dealing with hearing voices from a long time, at best guess, they came on from the mental and physical abuse i suffered as a child, but they seem to be finding ways to worm there wya into mylife even now. I was previously in a 10 year relationship that was very toxic and I just kind...
  10. K

    Relationship anxiety

    Not entirely sure why I’m writing this on here but just needed somewhere to write it down. I am so sick of my anxiety. Six months ago I would have told anyone I didn’t suffer from anything like anxiety or depression. Now, I’m not so sure. The only thing that’s changed in the last six months...
  11. K

    Feel so sad when boyfriend leaves!

    Hi there, was wondering if anyone else can relate to this or has ever felt like this. So basically, I always feel extremely upset and sad whenever my boyfriend leaves, no matter how much time we’ve spent together. Obviously I enjoy spending time with him and I’m always so happy when we’re...
  12. M

    BPD and relationships

    Hi, I'm wondering if anyone has any advice or has experienced this personally. Is there anyone on here with a partner who has BPD or anyone with BPD who can explain how it affects relationships? My boyfriend has BPD and we're in the very early stages of the relationship (we were friends for...
  13. M

    CBT basically "cured" but now im having a relapse, advice from CBT patients only please!

    CBT basically "cured" but now im having a relapse, advice from CBT patients only please! Hi Guys, I will try not to make this post long. Basically Ive been through a lot of things in my childhood and my adult years (Im 26 now). I started CBT three years ago, and let me tell you, when I...
  14. L

    Relationship Anxiety is Destroying my Relationship

    Hi everyone, This is my first ever post into a thread so, as always when you try a new method of anxiety management, I'm quite excited to see how this goes. Here's my story.... Eight months ago I got back with my ex boyfriend. The beginning was amazing, I had my doubts and insecurities and he...
  15. P

    Relationship anxiety

    Feel like after 9 months together I'm gonna fuck things up cause I can't chill the fuck out and stop overreacting over the slightest things and coming across as a clingy freak, I always assume the worst case over everything like if she doesn't answer the phone or reply to messages I assume she's...
  16. U

    Anxiety ruining my relationship

    Hi everyone, I guess i am just posting this in the hope that somebody else is experiencing the same situations and has any strategies in order to help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and it has been no doubt the best year of my life! He treats me amazingly and we have always had...
  17. S

    Relationship Anxiety

    Hi guys, Since the beginning of my now 3 year relationship my anxiety has caused me to have significant doubts about my partner being right for me. She's lovely, kind, caring, funny, all the usual needs. My main issue is that we are fundamentally different in that she is very assertive...
  18. M

    Relationship Anxiety

    Hi I'm about to turn 20 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year. I love him and love his company but I can't help but feel more anxiety as he finds my anxiety/insecurities of our relationship annoying. I've had anxiety since I was around 14 and still struggle with it most...
  19. R

    A friendly hello from this newbie :)

    Hi everyone! I've just joined this forum and thought I would say hello. A bit about myself, I'm a 32 year old female and I have suffered with depression and anxiety for a long time. My anxiety takes over my life and makes me overthink especially overthinking in my relationship (my poor...
  20. D

    Trying to help myself...

    Hello Everyone :) Basically for as long as I can remember I 've been a worrier, not just here and there about usual stuff but literally about everything I do, especially when it concerns people I love and care about. I'm female and 24 just for reference! It's followed a pattern throughout my...
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