relationship advice

  1. R

    THE POST IS VERY LONG BUT PLZ READ. IS THIS REALLY ROCD. WHAT DO I DO. SUDDEN URGES TO LEAVE, UNATTRACTIVE BOYFRIEND, NOT ANXIOUS ANYMORE? I'M DOOMED

    Hey everyone. On may 1st i started having these thoughts about "what if I don't love him" " what if you fall out of love for him" " what if you find another guy attractive" "what if u fall in love with your bf's brother" " what if u cheat on him" etc etc. So...
  2. M

    My GF left me due to her depression

    So I am writing this today to seek some advice or even really just to talk about it. A year ago I met an amazing woman and the spark was instant, we then spent the next couple weeks together and inevitably ended up as a couple. However I knew come the end of the month, I was moving onto a yacht...
  3. T

    Need relationship advice

    Hi everyone, I’m not sure this is the right forum to post this but it would be wonderful to get some insight and advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for three-and-a-half years. We are best friends, understand one another and love each other very much. But we are at a crossroads...
  4. T

    Boyfriend with agoraphobia, panic disorder, social anxiety, anxiety

    Hi everyone, I’m not sure this is the right forum to post this but it would be wonderful to get some insight and advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for three-and-a-half years. We are best friends, understand one another and love each other very much. But we are at a crossroads...
  5. Kepraell

    Am I being emotionally manipulated, is it their bpd or mine?

    This topic might be hard for people. But I seriously need to find advice on this. [tw: self harm mention] I have bpd. I am currently in a relationship with a girl who’s studying psychology, knows a fair bit about bpd and is very understanding. She’s polyamorous. I’m perfectly happy with her...
  6. T

    Was I right for leaving?

    Ok so I met this guy about a year ago. We instantly clicked. He seemed to be the perfect guy, someone I would call my soulmate. After a month talking he told me he couldn’t keep talking to me because he missed his ex of 4 years. He was in a very toxic relationship. We stopped talking. He messed...
  7. G

    bpd relationship problems

    i am in a loving and healthy relationship which i would not trade for the world. my boyfriend and i love each other but lately we’ve been encountering some problems. he’s been insecure/upset and he had told one of my friends that he loves me, but not as much as i love him. i experience emotions...
  8. B

    Relationship anxiety

    Hello, I’m 20 years old, I’m currently with my boyfriend of 5 months but also talking about the same thing that happened with my previous and first boyfriend of 1 and a half years. I don’t know if it is relationship anxiety as such but ever since getting in my first relationship, 75% of the time...
  9. F

    How to help my boyfriend with BPD feel loved?

    Hey! First time poster here, so sorry if the formatting is weird or I’m not doing a kind of forum-tradition. To start off, I do not have BPD, my boyfriend does. I love him very, very much, and want him to be aware of this. However, he struggles to believe it, and we are both searching for a way...
  10. C

    Low self esteem, low self worth and past relationship trauma affecting my trust with new partner

    I've been in a LDR (long distance relationship) with my current boyfriend for almost 5 months now. We met online through a mutual gaming friend and just hit it off and before we knew it both experienced a HUGE connection - so we met in person and got together. We see each other twice a month...
  11. L

    Relationship Anxiety?

    My boyfriend and I broke up in November but we did stay in contact. He broke up with me. He recently came back about 3 weeks ago and initially I refused to talk to him but he kept insisting I'm the love of his life and he will do whatever it takes to get me back. I caved and I was pretty happy...
  12. D

    Alot went down last Friday night... Please help

    Hello all... I have been through a lot in the past couple of months. I know I need help, but I am not sure how to start. I will try to explain my situation (as brief as I can). I know I need therapy, but I wanted to write my thoughts down and share with someone, so I can maybe relive a tiny bit...
  13. C

    Heartbreak

    Hi. I’m new to this forum and never posted anything online before. Just a brief background- my husband and I had been together 12 years when I ended our relationship. We both moved on very quickly but it was clear we both wanted each other back. He openly admitted he didn’t have feelings for...
  14. S

    I cannot continue my relationship with my girlfriend due to severe depression and anxiety

    Hi all, Hope everyone is okay, I'm 25 and really need some strong advice... so yeah the title...I've been with my girlfriend since December 2017 and I love her to bits. After 6 years of covering, hiding, suffering with my severe anxiety and depression I finally wanted to do something about it...
  15. C

    Dating/Relationship Advice?

    I'm kind of at my wits' end with this issue. I recently was able to graduate college, am working full-time, and am applying to go to medical school. I'm doing much better than any doc predicted when I first got the BPD diagnosis, but it's pretty much only because I wasn't in a relationship or...
  16. S

    Cheating ?

    Hello all , i recently was in a relationship with this girl for 11 months , everything was going great , we had our ups and downs as all relationships but nothing to cause us to break up we do everything together , shes my rock and we both love each other , but i have a few questions that...
  17. J

    I need someone to talk to...

    Hi Everyone, I'm really struggling today and would appreciate some advice... In a nutshell ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We have never had any issues, especially not any trust issues because he is so honest and open (sometimes too honest). Always treated me perfectly etc. He...
  18. Midnight.Panda

    My Mother's Words From 5 Years Ago Still Hurt Me Today

    Hi everyone, I am going back home very soon, so I wanted to get this off my chest and maybe get some advice. To give a brief background behind this, I have always had a distant relationship with my parents. I think a big reason for this is because they are busy with work or doing something...
  19. R

    Tips for BPD & long distance relationship?

    Hi all, I'm just wondering if anyone here has any tips/advice for having a healthy long distance relationship when I have BPD. I'm also saying now that I do not want people telling me that my relationship won't work. People need to stop scaremongering about romantic relationships with people...
  20. A

    I dont know what to do, how to help my fiance with depression and the stage of our relation

    I dont know what to do, how to help my fiance with depression and the stage of our relation Hi Everyone Thanks for reading this. This may be a bit long however i wanted to write as much as i could to get the best possible advice and help possible. Me and my fiance have been together for 10...
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