relationship advice

  1. G

    bpd relationship problems

    i am in a loving and healthy relationship which i would not trade for the world. my boyfriend and i love each other but lately we’ve been encountering some problems. he’s been insecure/upset and he had told one of my friends that he loves me, but not as much as i love him. i experience emotions...
  2. B

    Relationship anxiety

    Hello, I’m 20 years old, I’m currently with my boyfriend of 5 months but also talking about the same thing that happened with my previous and first boyfriend of 1 and a half years. I don’t know if it is relationship anxiety as such but ever since getting in my first relationship, 75% of the time...
  3. F

    How to help my boyfriend with BPD feel loved?

    Hey! First time poster here, so sorry if the formatting is weird or I’m not doing a kind of forum-tradition. To start off, I do not have BPD, my boyfriend does. I love him very, very much, and want him to be aware of this. However, he struggles to believe it, and we are both searching for a way...
  4. C

    Low self esteem, low self worth and past relationship trauma affecting my trust with new partner

    I've been in a LDR (long distance relationship) with my current boyfriend for almost 5 months now. We met online through a mutual gaming friend and just hit it off and before we knew it both experienced a HUGE connection - so we met in person and got together. We see each other twice a month...
  5. L

    Relationship Anxiety?

    My boyfriend and I broke up in November but we did stay in contact. He broke up with me. He recently came back about 3 weeks ago and initially I refused to talk to him but he kept insisting I'm the love of his life and he will do whatever it takes to get me back. I caved and I was pretty happy...
  6. D

    Alot went down last Friday night... Please help

    Hello all... I have been through a lot in the past couple of months. I know I need help, but I am not sure how to start. I will try to explain my situation (as brief as I can). I know I need therapy, but I wanted to write my thoughts down and share with someone, so I can maybe relive a tiny bit...
  7. C

    Heartbreak

    Hi. I’m new to this forum and never posted anything online before. Just a brief background- my husband and I had been together 12 years when I ended our relationship. We both moved on very quickly but it was clear we both wanted each other back. He openly admitted he didn’t have feelings for...
  8. S

    I cannot continue my relationship with my girlfriend due to severe depression and anxiety

    Hi all, Hope everyone is okay, I'm 25 and really need some strong advice... so yeah the title...I've been with my girlfriend since December 2017 and I love her to bits. After 6 years of covering, hiding, suffering with my severe anxiety and depression I finally wanted to do something about it...
  9. C

    Dating/Relationship Advice?

    I'm kind of at my wits' end with this issue. I recently was able to graduate college, am working full-time, and am applying to go to medical school. I'm doing much better than any doc predicted when I first got the BPD diagnosis, but it's pretty much only because I wasn't in a relationship or...
  10. S

    Cheating ?

    Hello all , i recently was in a relationship with this girl for 11 months , everything was going great , we had our ups and downs as all relationships but nothing to cause us to break up we do everything together , shes my rock and we both love each other , but i have a few questions that...
  11. J

    I need someone to talk to...

    Hi Everyone, I'm really struggling today and would appreciate some advice... In a nutshell ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We have never had any issues, especially not any trust issues because he is so honest and open (sometimes too honest). Always treated me perfectly etc. He...
  12. Midnight.Panda

    My Mother's Words From 5 Years Ago Still Hurt Me Today

    Hi everyone, I am going back home very soon, so I wanted to get this off my chest and maybe get some advice. To give a brief background behind this, I have always had a distant relationship with my parents. I think a big reason for this is because they are busy with work or doing something...
  13. R

    Tips for BPD & long distance relationship?

    Hi all, I'm just wondering if anyone here has any tips/advice for having a healthy long distance relationship when I have BPD. I'm also saying now that I do not want people telling me that my relationship won't work. People need to stop scaremongering about romantic relationships with people...
  14. A

    I dont know what to do, how to help my fiance with depression and the stage of our relation

    I dont know what to do, how to help my fiance with depression and the stage of our relation Hi Everyone Thanks for reading this. This may be a bit long however i wanted to write as much as i could to get the best possible advice and help possible. Me and my fiance have been together for 10...
  15. spoon-racoon

    advice about past trauma and relationships?

    I'm 18 right now, and for about 2 years during high school I was in a really toxic relationship. It was my first time dating someone and I was essentially groomed into accepting the abusive situation as normal. I feel like this experience really messed up my ability to form healthy...
  16. P

    BPD Partner doesn't love me anymore

    I've been in a relationship with my BPD fiancee for 7 years now and yesterday she told me that she does not love me anymore. She said she felt this way for several months and that she still cares about me a lot. I am also sure she has feelings for another man she just met at work, which she...
  17. H

    Really losing sight of reality.

    Hello to all, I've been recently diagnosed with this rare neurological movement disorder, that in essence makes my muscles stiff, turning me into a statue sometimes along with spasms, pain, balance and many other symptoms. I've always struggled with anxiety without knowing I had it, but for...
  18. 9

    Disassociation ruined my marriage

    So I've not posted on here before but really I think I'm looking for some sort of hope of guidance on what I should be doing with regards to life. My wife has just been diagnosed with Disassociation but they're also looking into DID but she hasn't has a formal diagnosis yet. 6 weeks ago she told...
  19. T

    Girlfriend changed completely within 2 days.

    Hello fellow forum members. I am with my girlfriend for 5 months now, but intensely attached to be honest. Both of us dreamed from total freedom living a freelancing lifestyle and exploring the world together. We are basically traveling for the whole time we know each other. Being 24/7 together...
  20. C

    really feeling lost

    sorry for the bad typing skills, i burned my hand on a straightener and can't use it to type! uggggghhhh feeling lost lately. mostly love related. i feel like men have turned me sour... especially my currently as i just broke up with my boyfriend. he's a sex addict, and really damaged me. but i...