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    Drawn to narcissists/people who make it worse

    Hi I'm new here! I struggle with BPD and was just wondering if anyone else finds that they are particularly drawn to/create relationships with other people who have narcissistic PD or who are sociopaths? If so was wondering what you think the reasons might be? Furthermore do you find that there...
  2. M

    Narcissism

    Hi, I'm new to this forum. I've recently gotten hurt by my narcissistic ex boyfriend. I didn't realise he was a narc until recently when he manipulated and used me, and all his other subtle behaviours that went under my radar at the time have now flashed red lights at me. I have now gone NC...
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    I just don't care.

    I just don't care. About anything. I cannot help but not care, at all. I believe I am a narcissist. I have come to the point of not wanting to do anything besides sleeping and eating and staying warm this winter. Whenever I try to force myself to do other things, I start feeling incredibly...
  4. Iamsoconfused

    Can BPDs become narcissists?

    A couple of years ago, when I was doing some research online about BPD, I came across an article online that says, the borderline who "finds herself" ends up becoming a narcissist. I just wanted to get better for the last ten years, because my childhood and early 20's was chaotic and harmful to...
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    I hate you go away, please come back love me I need you

    I have no sense of self. My relationships are unstable, i honestly barely have relationships because I break them off. I can't easily build new ones because I have trust and abandonment issues. Because I rely highly on narcissist supply, I crave for attention and favoritism. In and out of...
  6. Nikita

    I hate my family>

    50 YEARS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST ME BY MY NARCISSIST MOTHER AND NARCISSIST SISTER.50 YEARS OF NEGLECT AS A CHILD,CONTROL AS A YOUNG WOMAN AND OUT RIGHT EMOTIONAL,PSYCHOLOGICAL,MENTAL,VERBAL ABUSE,BULLYING,BEING TOLD WHAT TO DO BEING USED AND PUSHED AND PULLED ABOUT.....BEING HARASSED AND...
  7. Nikita

    My mental health has deteriorated I am gonna ask for help!

    With all the drama over narc sister entering my house without permission and gaslighting me my mental health has deteriorated and I am struggling to manage all the bad feelings and fear she has instilled me,I am in shock and fear,I can't concentrate of focus and I am losing energy and security,I...
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    Am i Co-dependant?

    I'm not even sure where to start my story is long and confusing and I don't know what I am but I have an appointment with the doctor later today and I guess I just need to get it out before then for fear of blabbing uncontrollably. It started around 6 weeks ago when I was cut out of the life...
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    I was abused by a narcissist

    For so long i was broken down into bits and pieces, the longer stayed together the more i would lose myself until I was a mere shadow of myself. I would stop eating and drop tons of weight and isolate myself in the wake of the narcissistic terror. In the end I was afraid of my own shadow...
  10. amathus

    7 Reasons Why Narcissists Love People Pleasers

    1.The strong attraction between narcissists and people pleasers is no accident. There is a magnetic pull between the two that is very difficult to break because each is meeting a deep need of the other. This is not the fault of one over the other. Rather, it is an unhealthy union that breeds...
  11. amathus

    Are Narcissists Born Not Made? Article.

    There’s a saying that some artists or masterful musicians and craftsmen are “born, not made.” In some ways, our DNA imprints much of our future personalities and talents into our human form, but some paths that are followed are created by us, not born into us. Narcissism is one of those traits...
  12. Nikita

    The Narcissistic Personality

    How to Recognise a Narcissist - HealthyPlace My sister is an narcissist who put me through a lot of verbal and psychological violence and abuse.What are other's experiences of living with a narcissist,have you survived having such a person in your life?Have you had enough of the negativity,the...
  13. shaky

    Am I a Narcisist?

    I worry at times that I am a narcissist. My evidence is scanty, but it worries me. I like being naked, and I like seeing other people naked too. But I seem to find that the person I like to see most is me. Modern phones have pictures on them A lot of people have pictures of their loved ones...
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    Narcissist

    I really need help, I am so confused is my ex-boyfriend a narcissist. We was together for nearly six months, we meet on a dating website where he message me twice. We spent a month talking and I told him everything about me (personal things). When we met he was perfect, kind and so so lovely...
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    Advice needed on dealing with a BPD / narcissistic ex boyfriend

    Needing advice on how to deal with a BPD (Boarderline Personality Disorder) / Narcissistc ex boyfriend. I finally left my exboyfriend in January after a year of physical, mental and verbal abuse. (we haven't seen each other since and I have not responded to any of his emails/texts/messages...
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    My brother is a Narcissist - Help !

    Just found out my brother is a Narcissist in the clinical sence. Childhood was word war III curtasy of my brother. I at least now understand why he felt superior without any reason, and had so much rage and contempt towards us, but no concern or love. No empathy etc.... He's the quiet...
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    friend or narcissist???

    My EX best friend and I had a fallout about 3 months ago. She refuses to speak to me. I was severely depressed had undiagnosed bipolar and was grieving the loss of my sister from 10 years ago. I feared that I was gonna loose my best friend so I held her tight and smothered her. I was very needy...
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    23 Signs You’re Secretly a Narcissist Masquerading as a Sensitive Introvert

    23 Signs You’re Secretly a Narcissist Masquerading as a Sensitive Introvert 23 Signs You’re Secretly a Narcissist Masquerading as a Sensitive Introvert | Beautiful Minds, Scientific American Blog Network Thought this applied to this subforum due to the often case of people talking about their...
  19. cpuusage

    Narcissist Confinement, The Value of Friendship to a Narcissist

    Published on 31 Jan 2013 The narcissist is not interested in making friends, just in obtaining narcissist supply. He values people based solely in the amount of narcisst supply he will receive from him/her. More on Narcissist Confinement here...
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    No real friends

    I know a lot of people, only because I work, but have no real friends. No one to talk to online or offline. I have isolated myself for a long time, trying to recover from a relationship with a narcissist who nearly killed me. Coming here is a real struggle as I have lost trust with the world...
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