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  1. K

    Narcissism (NPD)

    Hey guys and girls, I am a real narcissist and looking for some supply to talk to and admire me ... well not really. But maybe. Just wanted to say hi cause I'm new here. You can ask me stuff as well and I try to give an honest answer. KingPingX
  2. M


    Hi, I'm new to this forum. I've recently gotten hurt by my narcissistic ex boyfriend. I didn't realise he was a narc until recently when he manipulated and used me, and all his other subtle behaviours that went under my radar at the time have now flashed red lights at me. I have now gone NC...
  3. S

    Husband and children of narcissistic mother seeking advice

    Hi there. My 2 children and I are in a desperate place. We have been living in a refuge for battered women here in western Norway for a month now to escape the trauma around my severely epileptic wife's behaviour. We have been together for 19 years during which time I've cared for my wife and...
  4. N

    Histrionic Borderline Narcissism Sex Sharing and Siblings

    I met my very attractive, uninhibited 50 yo (histrionic-borderline) narc gf online and we agreed to begin a monogamous relationship; a man's dream---she does it all in bed, yet exhumes a respectable-girl demeanor. She and her slightly older (not nearly as attractive) sister live together. 3...
  5. N

    multitude of sins

    hi everyone. i am nijinski i have got a number of mental health issues as well as physical health ones. i have been diagnosed with aspergers syndrome with narcissism, anxiety, paranoia and i am also an epileptic. my mother also had the same mental health problems but her narcissism was very bad...
  6. H

    How do I progress in my great relationship without pushing away my overly affectionate boyfriend?

    How do I progress in my great relationship without pushing away my overly affectionate boyfriend? So bit of background (for context not pity by any stretch of the imagination)... I came out of a two year relationship in March (although it was basically over within the first week of Jan but we...
  7. C

    Delusion or narcissism?

    Someone I know thinks they're one of the smartest people in the world. I agree she's smart but she belittles people because she thinks because of her intelligence she is better. She actually thinks she's the smartest person in the world and that she's very unique and special. Is this a delusion...
  8. M

    Narcissism, god complex, megalomania, psychosis

    My therapist says i have NPD. i actuallly display every single symptom of NPD. and she said i might have psychosis. i didnt tell her about how bad my delusions of granduer are but she does know i have them. ive heard of people in movies/tv who were schizophrenic and thought they were God. i...
  9. B

    Taking too many selfies could be a sign of mental illness.

    Are Selfies a Sign of Narcissism and Psychopathy? A new study examines selfies, narcissism, psychopathy and self-objectification *Posted Jan 08, 2015 There has been a lot of talk about selfies in the media. In fact, the word selfie was recently added to Oxford’s online dictionary. But...
  10. Kerome

    Why self-compassion works better than self-esteem

    In 1986, California state assemblyman John Vasconcellos came up with what he believed could be “a vaccine for major social ills” like teen pregnancy and drug abuse: a special task-force to promote self-esteem among Californians. The effort folded three years later, and was widely considered not...
  11. RainbowHeartz


    I've researched into it, it appears many people in my past had traits of narcissism including my mother, my abusers etc Im starting to wonder if I have them too as I get self absorbed so much, I care about others but I don't listen and talk too much, its like im researching me and how to improve...
  12. amathus

    7 Reasons Why Narcissists Love People Pleasers

    1.The strong attraction between narcissists and people pleasers is no accident. There is a magnetic pull between the two that is very difficult to break because each is meeting a deep need of the other. This is not the fault of one over the other. Rather, it is an unhealthy union that breeds...
  13. amathus

    Are Narcissists Born Not Made? Article.

    There’s a saying that some artists or masterful musicians and craftsmen are “born, not made.” In some ways, our DNA imprints much of our future personalities and talents into our human form, but some paths that are followed are created by us, not born into us. Narcissism is one of those traits...
  14. L

    Bpd and narcissism

    I have recently become aware that I have traits of narcissism . I don't like it. But yet I am not sure as I also have dependence issues because of insecurities. Any one else aware of there narcissistic traits ?
  15. G

    Why are some people obsessed with plastic surgery?

    I have a friend who is obsessed with plastic surgery, she even went to Korea to get a nose job. After that she had a boob job and lip implants. She is also a product junkie, she buys a lot of beauty products for her skin. I don't understand why she does that she's pretty without all the...
  16. D

    Does my Ex have Narcissistic Personality Disorder?

    First of all, I believe this will be long so thank you in advance for bearing with me. Two weeks ago my ex-boyfriend and I called it quits. We ended things because of him but the break up was mutual. While we were together I always had doubts about whether or not he was a narcissist or had any...
  17. dubblemonkey

    A second chance

    ...I am humbled by this forum and there are some beautiful people here that are so wonderful ...beyond my ability to show my gratitude at the same calibre! ...and my last episode did indeed display some awful hyper-mania..! some of the worst things I have ever experienced? ...these things...
  18. S

    Social anxiety and toxic relationships

    Has anyone else noticed a link between their SA and the quality of the relationships they have been attracting. All my life my low self-esteem has led me to be a loser magnet but my last relationship was the pinnacle. Not only was he emotionally and physically abusive, he also personified the...
  19. Z

    My Mother A vent

    As far as I can tell my mother has ocd, bipolar, and last but not least is a narcissist. I know she is mentally ill and not medicated properly. She's my adopted mother and I've not talked to her for the last year. She's old in her mid 80s almost. I think of her weekly and long to be able to call...
  20. F

    The narcissism epidemic

    Are we in the midst of a narcissism epidemic? Attention seeking behaviour, the need to stand out, an increased focus on image, fame and money seem to be on the rise. Researchers from the U.S. have found that young people’s average scores against the Narcissistic Personality Inventory are...