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  1. M

    The aloneness

    I pass day by day alone, ive not have a 1 on 1 talk since months, more than a year, ive not go out to met with someone more than a year, i get used to this, and im fine with it, and im just interested in meet other people who is in the same life as this. Ive not met anyone in this forums or...
  2. K

    Bfriend needs space, i need advice

    I'm completely new to this forum as well as subject. I would need some advise on my situation if possible. I've met a guy over month ago over internet, we spoke a while via wassup and we met shortly after. It's like we knew for ages, first meeting was so relaxed and nice, we got so many things...
  3. Tired Daisy

    I'm the most horrendously hideous person ever

    Ok so I said I wouldn't post until February but sod it I'm feeling so crap right now and depressed I wish I would die. Some of you reading this will say oh your amazing and all the rest of it... yep I may be somewhat alright behind a computer typing and posting stuff and commenting but in real...
  4. M

    My story.

    So my case is interesting. Short story. Raised as a Jehovah's Witness, left at 13 knowing I was in a cult. Moved state in with sister, didn't work out. Roommates picked me up, met highly intelligent people. Ate psychedelics, started getting into Wicca. "Sold my soul" in words and intention as a...
  5. F

    The mortgage is in my name, would he get half?

    Hi Can anyone give me some advice on this please? I have a mortgage that is in my name only and my partner lives with me. If we split up, would he be able to get half of my house? I moved into the house and had my mortgage before I met him. I hope someone can help. thanks.
  6. D

    Paranoia in relationship

    I'm dating this girl at the moment. We've been seeing each other about two months now. I met her on a dating website. We seem to like each other but I really fear my paranoia is getting the better of me. We've not met much recently as she says she is seeing family and friends or just feeling...
  7. L

    I just need some understanding

    I met a girl on POF (dating website). I met the girl irl(in real life). I took on a date. The date went really well. She come to my place and got drunk after. We had sex. She stated that she loved another guy. But she believes he doesn't love her. They are broken up (she is single). Now she says...
  8. S

    my bulimic girlfriend

    I am 73 and was married to my wife for 42 years until she passed away in 2010.In early 2015 I met my current girlfriend (aged 68) and have been with her ever since. We don't live together but go on trips (see below) together and really enjoy each others company. When we first met she told me...
  9. Fairy Lucretia

    had chance to make a RL friend x

    and i can't do it ,i met the loveliest lady a little bit younger than me a few weeks ago over the field with maddie ,we got talking about our dogs and she said she would help me if the children were a nuisance (i was having problems at the time) and we exchanged numbers so she could help if...
  10. B

    Mental Health/Split Personality

    Hi (new to the forum), I just wanted to see if maybe anyone has experienced what i have and has any solutions to help out. My partner has suffered with mental health since i met her 2 and a half years ago. Since then we've brought a house together, had a baby and spend 24/7 with each other...
  11. Z

    Been battling with this toxic relationship. Need help!

    I arrived here in the US 5 years ago. I got married to an old American man whom I met online. I was part of this site where you can get yourself an online bride and yes, I am one of those online brides. We talked online and eventually met while he was on one of those tours conducted to meet...
  12. M

    Friends with Personality Disorder Advice on Dealing with Appropriately

    Hi I'm new here. I will try to be brief. I'm considered a hippie. I've been through a lot and probably have poor boundries. I met my "friend" in a really low space. We climbed out but his BPD and not seeking the right help really made it impossible to live together. Although we have tried a...
  13. W

    Reassurance to Myself

    This post is more to reassure myself more than anything. I'm sort of seeing someone. We've been seeing each other since October 2017. But we had been talking online since February 2017. She just isn't right for me. And I feel like I need to just write it down and reassure myself that, it's no...
  14. T

    New Here

    I’ve never used anything like this before but I need to reach out to someone and right now I don’t know who to go to. I suffer from extreme anxiety and depression. I’ve been self harming since I was about 14. I did good for years after I got out of high school and started my career. Then I met...
  15. M

    Gf suffering with Depression

    I’m with an amazing woman and we are so happy together, we are open and honest with each other and have built up a strong relationship based on trust, she has told me about her past which included being diagnosed with depression and anxiety 3 years ago, issues also stemming back to her childhood...
  16. toughroger21

    Foreign gf’s dad died. Should I send money?

    I have a girlfriend from the Philippines that I met years ago during a romance tour. We’ve been together for quite some time now since we got together just a few months after we met. I immediately fell for her because of her good qualities. Behind her pretty face is a girl with good moral and...
  17. C

    Does my ex have it?

    We got together in January, she bought me like 20 gifts for my birthday and Valentines, Came to see me a month after meeting, (She's in another country) Things were going great up until September, when she met these guys on PS4, and started playing with them. I knew exactly what they were doing...
  18. R

    I should be depressed!?!

    Haven't posted in a while, but I'm facing an all-time-low... Family - Dad admits to never wanting kids, and that I was an accident. He's regularly resentful towards me and constantly puts me down. Health - Gradually putting on weight mainly due to becoming middle-aged and not finding the...
  19. C

    Struggling to deal with everything thrown at me

    Hi, I'm new here but just need some advice. Over the last few months or so my anxiety has gotten really bad. This has resulted in me cutting off friends and having an almost non existent social life. Recently my life has been chaotic, with my mum being diagnosed with liver cancer and a feeling...
  20. When In Rome

    I just met an autistic savant!

    It was at the hairdressers. His carer was talking to me. The man, Howard, does not have the communication skills I have being HFA. But Howard's memory was incredible, like nothing else. He knew what day it was I was born on. When I asked him about the 1911 FA Cup Final we could agree that...