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    Changing an Abusive Relationship

    In my opinion, fear or shame are the keys to controlling us. When we change this control mechanism, voices can change. So here are some points that may help: 1. Identify the trigger. When a voice makes a remark, note your body language and that of other people. Note what kind of environment you...
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    Manipulating people for shows of affection?

    Is this normal or a symptom of anxiety so manipulating people for shows of concern? love? care? for example - doing something dangerous to illicit a caring rsponse from someone else? or craving that care? Wanting to be looked after? or is it just me? Is it strange wanting to be treated like a...
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    Hi I'm new

    Hi just joined today , just come out a abusive relationship emotionally and mentally , I'm a single mum to 5 boys who are 4 x asd and ADHD and 1 cp I get no help with the boys due to funding cuts and find it really hard My ex is very manipulating and my gp has just diagnosed depresson and wants...