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  1. L

    Many women disqualify me in dating solely for being virgin

    I have been in this internal struggle to regain my self-esteem despite having turned 30 and remaining a virgin despite not wanting to. I have gained a lot of self-confidence back, but the problem seems to be that a lot seem to think that the virginity issue nullifies any of that. Even when I...
  2. Tritagonist


    For a while now, I've been feeling really lonely. It started out as just sexual frustration (I have a very high libido but I'm a virgin/have never kissed anyone) but it's since evolved into a deeper, more emotional frustration. I realised some time ago that I'm simply not cut out for a...
  3. xThatRachel

    When my boyfriend drops me at home, I get upset and miss him.

    Hello to you all... I have been with my boyfriend for a few years, however when he drops me off at home after seeing him all weekend I get upset and have butterflies in my stomach. It doesn’t seem to get any easier as every weekend is the same... I love him so very much and I don’t like to get...
  4. oneandonlyazera

    Insight about my relationship problems please...

    Hello, So I will start by providing some background information. This is going to be a lot, so I apologize. I figured I'd find more support on this here than on reddit where I am just told derogatory things for being with my boyfriend. Anyways, I have a lot of childhood trauma. My mother and my...
  5. FindingTheMeaning

    I'm Trying (A Life Story)

    Knowing you most likely read the title, I want to start out by saying this is my first time trying out an online mental health forum. To be honest, I have no idea where to start but I figure at some point everything is worth a try. I felt really called while lying in my bed indulging in my...
  6. L

    Mania or love?

    I’m married. We’ve been in a bad place for years. I’ve cheated some times. But the last person I think i fell in love with. I gave up everyting to spend every second possible with her. Made some bad calls at work, with family and friends. And most of all my wife. But is this feelings for the...
  7. T

    Need relationship advice

    Hi everyone, I’m not sure this is the right forum to post this but it would be wonderful to get some insight and advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for three-and-a-half years. We are best friends, understand one another and love each other very much. But we are at a crossroads...
  8. T

    Boyfriend with agoraphobia, panic disorder, social anxiety, anxiety

    Hi everyone, I’m not sure this is the right forum to post this but it would be wonderful to get some insight and advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for three-and-a-half years. We are best friends, understand one another and love each other very much. But we are at a crossroads...
  9. JoeCurr

    Only 10% Worse.

    I'm not a psychopath, there's no such thing. You might argue, in your experience, have encountered some pretty messed up people. I'm not a psychopath, I'm just mostly fearless. I have the courage to look at an MS-13 thug, at their forehead tattoo that says "Rape. Murder. Conquer." and say, "cute...
  10. F

    POCD: update 2: Felling better.

    Hi everyone. Just writing this to let everyone know that for now, after four days of pure hell, my POCD is starting to fade away. It DID everything in its power to try and make me see myself as a former teenage sex offender/p*do by faking, twisting or even removing key details from my memories...
  11. L

    End of relationship with SO - never loved me?

    This is likely to be a long post, and I am sorry, but I would really like some reassurance and impartial opinions. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 5.5 years, and were friends for about a year before that. The beginning of our relationship was in person, but the latter half was long...
  12. F

    My PTSD-Suffering girlfriend has ended the relationship.

    Hi I am new to this forum, I found out about it after my PTSD-Suffering girlfriend ended our relationship a couple of weeks ago. Since then, I have been reading more about the condition to try and gain a better understanding of how it feels and what to do etc. We were together for 1year and...
  13. B

    Is having a Love doll healthy for you?

    Hello people. I plan to buy a Love Doll. It's a adult only doll with life like appearance of a human mainly use for sex. Expensive ones have every detail of outside appearance of human, pores, veins, muscle, hair, mole, skin texture, softness, even genitalia Pigmentation and weight looks exactly...
  14. I

    Help me, I feel I'm dying. ROCD

    First, sorry for my English, I'm not native speaker. Here is my story. I've been dating with my girlfriend almost 4 years ago. She's an amazing woman (we're 24, almost 25); I've lived a lot of adventures by her side; she thought me a lot of things and an amazing way of living life. I was her...
  15. J

    I'm Lost

    Hello All, I have joined this group to be able to share my story and read others. I've got to the point where I feel my friends must be sick of me. I have suffered depression all of my adult live and it has cost me 3 relationships including the last one which lasted 12 years but ended 2 years...
  16. P

    I am inhuman

    I can't help but wonder why I'm human. Why am I in a physical form? What was I created for? Why am I not a spirit floating through time and space? What happens when I die? Is life on Earth just a game? I feel like I lost all connection to humanity. I don't understand the point of existing and...
  17. S

    Is my girlfriend a narcissist/sociopath?

    I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year. Here are my suspicions of sociopathy or maybe narcissism? -Has very few friends - only 1 close friend before she met me -Withholds affection when angry, and gives silent treatment -Stands by her statement that shes's not better than everyone but...
  18. Liza9560

    Any Other Americans Here?

    Hi, y’all! I love these forums. I love reading your Englishness. I love the support and reassurance I feel from the threads! I’m curious tho...any other Americans around? I live in Texas, and right now, it’s 8:15 pm, Monday night. Across the pond, it must be tomorrow already! :p And anyone...
  19. P

    Hi from Daytona Beach

    Hello, everyone, I'm 62. Been with my problems since age 18. Sure would love to find a freind here. Just to discuss things.
  20. G

    Can anybody relate?

    I sometimes feel like I have so much love in my life but also feel so alone at the same time. Can anybody relate? Geoff