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  1. S

    Hello from the UK..

    :flower2 Hi, Hi, it's my first time on a forum like this, found it in Google search and liked what I saw so here I am. I have a rare bone condition which affects my whole body and also server depression and anxiety. I'm not as mobile as I use to be and this is something I'm finding very...
  2. J

    How to help a friend with depression

    Hi, I started university about 3 months ago and became really close friends with a boy living opposite me. About a month into knowing each other he told me that he had depression and that he was taking medication for it. After this, I would try and keep asking him how he was and making sure he...
  3. 2

    Need help with bpd boyfriend

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. The relationship hasn’t always been easy as I have adhd & autism and he has bpd. When we first got together he self-harmed badly and was severely suicidal. I stood by his side and helped him get into a better mind set and before a...
  4. Homebound87

    Tired of living in fear

    I'm new here. I'm scared everyday. I hardly leave my house. I've been hiding my fear of leaving my house and my depression for quite some time. I cannot leave my house alone. I'd I have too it's with my husband or my sister in law. There the only ones I've ever talked to but they don't really...
  5. N

    Forced into socialising

    After a week of severe meltdowns and extreme anxiety. My partners family invited themselves for a Sunday roast. The last thing i need not to mention i have nothing nice to say to one of his sisters or her partner as i do not think much of them after recent events. So too avoid the threat of them...
  6. L

    my boyfriend is diagnosed with anxiety

    Hey everyone. At first I want to tell you that english is my second language and therefore I will make mistakes and may not find the right words to say. if you don't get what I am talking about please ask. I'm here because my boyfriend got diagnosed with anxiety and I don't know how to help...
  7. garbageg4

    No one wants me anymore

    My kids told me they are done with me for life that all I've done is ruined their lives from the start. At times for their school functionsi will drive 2 hrs to be there for a 15-30 min performance only to turn around and drive 2 hrs back home and they just turn up their noses at me, won't say...
  8. T

    Very very depressed

    Good evening, My name is Tabatha I am new in here. Um I really don't know what to say so I'll leave it as that I guess
  9. J


    Hey.. so I had an email from this site yesterday as it was world mental health day, I must of signed up years ago I don’t even remember. But I’d really like some help as I’m starting to feel unhelpable.. here’s my story.. I’ve been on antidepressants for years on and off for what different GP’s...
  10. bluekii

    Terrified to go to college because I feel I am too ugly.

    Hi, I'm not an overly active member on here anymore, but I'm honestly not sure what to do anymore. I'm thinking of dropping out of College because I honestly feel so god damn ugly and I am so scared of people seeing me. I feel ashamed and embarrassed and just disgusting. I don't leave my house...
  11. S


    have any of you been sexually or physically abused within a mental health setting? i'll leave that one with you for this evening.
  12. B

    i don't understand...

    This is how the pain starts: I think I meet my soul mate, they turn out to break my heart, but I am never at fault, although, I constantly break it off and start again. I can't seem to think straight when someone I'm interested in my presence shows me attention. I never think about...
  13. Deadheading

    Video: Borderline Personality: Loved Ones - You Can't Rescue Them

    YouTube I thought this was a good video, although I strongly disagree with the point of people who leave BPD patients should leave and be OK with it. Listening to her talk helped me realize what my abandonment issue is, and who it was. She's going to pay for it by spending the rest of her...
  14. C

    How do I get over my severe phobia of dogs?

    I am a dog owner myself and I love dogs, but I am scared of dogs I don't know, especially large dogs. This all stems from being bitten by another dog in our family several times. (to the point where I needed stitches.) Because of this I ended up moving out of their home. Even though I am in a...
  15. J

    Why does bpd ex keep coming back?

    Hello everyone, this is my first post on here. Never thought I’d post about something like this. I don’t usually post on any forum.. So about 2 years ago, I met a girl who I thought was going to be the “one”. The girls that i always saw usually never caught my attention like that. So things...
  16. Fairy Lucretia

    i think i better leave

    before the forum closes x i need to get used to being alone
  17. Fairy Lucretia

    if i don't get my benefits

    i will have to die PIP up for renewal next year and im sure i won't get it and im terrified of universal credit changing over im scared of not being able to afford maddie and being homeless why can't they just leave us alone? x
  18. L

    having trouble

    hi everyone, my name is liv and this is my first post on this forum. just as a little background to me, i was diagnosed with extreme anxiety in the sixth grade and severe depression in the eighth and these things have just escalated since then. basically, in short, i don't know what to feel...
  19. P

    Why does everyone leave me

    Why does everyone leave me when my mental health gets “too bad” I wish I could run away from this. Feeling low and worthless.
  20. B

    help supporting partner after being dumped

    Hi, The love of my life split up with me the other day after several years together. This is because of his depression and he states he feels numb and emotionless and that it would be better for me in the long run. I am absolutely devastated and heartbroken but given his levels of depression I...