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  1. T

    Please help me understand my partners behaviour who is long term depressive

    Please help me understand my partners behaviour who is long term depressive Hi I've been in a relationship with woman who told me on first date that she suffered with depression and didn't really think any more of it, got along great I have two grown up kids (wife died) she has three 17 year...
  2. polkadotscarf

    I really need to OD

    I really want to OD. I have a loving husband and loving, lively kids. I have plans, lots of plans for the future. I have good friends that surround me and are more than willing to support me. I have a loving, supportive family who will do the world for me even if anything happens with my...
  3. G

    HELP - BPD Partner & 3 Children

    . . . .don't know where to start. Well actually I do . . .having a plate of food and glass of wine thrown at me whilst eating dinner with my three young children this evening . . .all because the kids conversation was annoying her and she couldn't control it or her own unfounded emotional...
  4. SBRicketts

    Hi.

    I'm a weasel. We sometimes summon wings. We follow the arts of ninjutsu and ballet,it compliments our speed. We even use Karate and light force jutsus. My girlfriend is Aphrodite dark side. Nikita Velene.(_+912∆}{}[]\ I have had two kids. As a mentally I'll person you're not supposed to. You...
  5. S

    Separation anxiety in adults???

    Hey all so i need some help understanding whats happening to me. I HATE when my kids leave me to go to school. I have a 3rd grader and a kindergardener. My kindergardner has had health issues in the past which has been scary at times. When he is not with me i get very anxious but its almost...
  6. S

    Morning anxiety

    Hey everyone im new to all of this so i hope im doing it right. I am having a really hard time adjusting to my kids being back in school. I am having trouble sleeping at night. I am always up hours before i have to get the kids up and i feel very panicky. I am thinking irrational thoughts...
  7. E

    When is it acceptable to show scars?

    ​Hi, I have scars from less than a month ago on my lower arms which are pretty obvious and older scars on my shoulders. The scars on my lower arms go all the way down to the edge of my hand and are very hard to cover, even with completely long sleeved tops. I personally don't have a problem...
  8. S

    Borderline and having kids

    Hello lovely people. I am a 30 year old guy who absolutely wants to have kids sometime in the future - The only thing stopping me is my fear of being a bad parent due to my mentalhealth. I have a borderline diagnosis, but i am not as much affected as many other people whom i've meet who also...
  9. J

    I blame parents

    Life is so cruel, why do parents bring kids into this world-they are 100% responsible for all of mankind's suffering, not to mention that of animals that humans have caused. I only hope one day breeders will destroy the planet by overpopulating it to such a degree to cause human extinction-that...
  10. katya

    TW:CSA I have my first ever BPD-specific therapy session tomorrow (MBT)

    TW:CSA I have my first ever BPD-specific therapy session tomorrow (MBT) I'm nervous and excited. I've been waiting years for this. I quit work in 2015, was clearly showing signs of BPD, and have only now been given the opportunity to start therapy. I've gone through a lot to get here. I...
  11. C

    Husband of Wife who is in recovery..

    Not sure how active these forums are or if I'm submitting in the right place but I'll just start.... My wife is suffering from anorexia, but (even though she'll never read this) I think it's important I state this. She is the most incredible person I've met. I don't deserve her but she chose to...
  12. R

    Hi all!

    My name is Nicole, I'm a mad momma and an artist. My kids are 18,16,5,3 all boys and I've been battling schizophrenia schizoaffective their whole life and mine too. My kids are bright and smart and have goals and ambitions and are all mentally well, I think in part because their dad and I always...
  13. V

    Anxiety about my (happy) relationship

    Hi there! This is my first time posting on the forum, so if I do anything wrong, please let me know! I've been feeling really really scared and down lately about the future of my relationship- not because there's any problems, but the opposite really! I've been with a wonderful man for about a...
  14. Mr.NiceGuy

    new to schizophrenia

    Computers, music, day dreaming, meditation, being locked in your head, smoking, these things keep me grounded in my chair all day. Do the other schizoids here spend most of their free time alone in a chair? Is a lack of social activity and concern for working a problem of anybody else's? If only...
  15. T

    What do I do please help !!

    My husband has been unwell for a while I have come to realise , it started months ago . Where he would be erratic and aggressive out of the blue . Not sleeping and saying nasty things . As a result I kicked him out . He has since lost his job , been prison , and had his friends and family wash...
  16. A

    Being forced to take medication?

    I'm on aripiprazole and mirtazipine for BPD, complex PTSD and an eating disorder. Back in January i stopped taking my medication, CMHT went mental because i went into a bit of a crisis and got social services involved with me and my kids. Turns out social services helped me a lot with different...
  17. O

    i can't do this anymore and donno how to keep living

    Hi I am almost 40. I have BPD , had suicide attempt, but cose i have kids, i managed to stay alive. I couldn't do this to the kids, to temper their whole life with this act. I self medicate for lots of years with weed and alcohol. I managed to hide this from the kids and the world. for all...
  18. katya

    I'm freaking out, shaking & crying TW:CSA

    I've had to move home with my mum and dad and brother, who's my abuser. He was only a kid himself at the time but it's still fucking hard for me. He has two kids (he's not a threat to abuse them). He doesn't look after them. He's always in his room sleeping or taking coke. He owes me £500 and my...
  19. SoftRain

    YOu know when you are getting old and fat when...

    You can't get out of the freaking bathtub! I decided to shave my legs today and take a moisturizing bath for summer. I usually use our shower but used my kids bathtub cause I thought it would be easier. It took me 5 minutes at least to wiggle around like a wet pig to finally make my way out. It...
  20. S

    Need some help- fast

    ok, so I'm Schizoid- diagnosed a year ago. 35yo, married, couple of kids. Don't ever really feel much of anything. I felt anger once. Anyway, my wife is saying she feels unloved and distant from me. We always have so much going on, and don't have much alone time together except after the kids...
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