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  1. Jbb79

    Is God important to you ??

    Hi, I Some-times wonder, about God . . . Do others do that ? ?
  2. Solitude1

    Thinking Problems

    Hello everyone. Nowadays I've come to find out something really strange. I wanna know if it's a problem of mine, a problem of people with mental difficulties or even healthy people experience it. It may seem extremely ridiculous but please answer because it's very important for me. When studying...
  3. fazza

    Alternative Christmas message

    It's ok not to be in the Christmas spirit It's ok to say bah humbug However you want to do this Christmas do it your way. It's ok not to conform to stereotypes at Christmas. It's just another day. We are the important ones. So have the best day on our journey through life.
  4. vanish

    Yesterday's forgotten hero

    So yesterday while I was home alone with the animals all day, I harmed myself. I haven't done anything like that since I don't know when! I am not proud of what I did and while my method of harming is pretty much invisible to those who don't know what they are looking for (so I went undetected)...
  5. Kerome

    The lack of self respect as an affliction

    Another item from the Venerable Thubten Chodron’s lectures on the minor afflictions, the one I was reading this morning was about the lack of self-respect. It too made a lot of sense to me, as something that I have noticed becoming an issue lately. The reason why lack of self respect is an...
  6. tiltawhirl

    The Art of Love

    The Art of Love Erich Fromm Audiobook Full - YouTube one of the most important books ever.
  7. T

    Getting MH staff better at hearing emotional pain

    I think this is important, when people are suicidal they can have all sorts of responses from services. Some help you feel like you've been heard, and some, frankly, don't. Some of this has come out recently in an article in 'Crisis' journal called 'Hearing the Suicidal Patient's Emotional...
  8. speckles

    Saving psychotherapy for ed sufferers

    It is ed awareness week next week in the U.K. It seems ironic that at the very same time psychotherapy is being removed from inpatient units where patients are held under the mha I have already posted this petition on line here already and some have signed which is great . There is now 1000 but...
  9. speckles

    Please sign this. This going to be devistating

    I just signed the petition, “Jeremy Hunt: NHS Adult Eating Disorder Psychotherapy cuts: Patients at risk at Springfield, SW London.” I think this is important. Will you sign it too? Here’s the link: Petition . Jeremy Hunt: NHS Adult Eating Disorder Psychotherapy cuts: Patients at risk at...
  10. D

    Why is stability so important to BPD

    Hi I've been diagnosed with BPD for a few years and after 4 years of relative calm, chronic pain has triggered off a major crisis. Would anyone be able to explain why stability is so important to BPD? I hate the chronic feeling of emptiness it is so hard to explain why stability, having an...
  11. Fairy Lucretia

    feel useless

    my sister is going through a lot right now ,i can't talk about it on here i don't know how to help her ,im trying so hard to be there for her but so much of what she is going through is triggering me and im hurting myself so much and feeling even more suicidal im useless and pathetic ,i...
  12. A

    Unsure - Please help!

    Hello everybody! I'm Alex and I'm 23 and an art student. I have what I believe to be a somewhat unique condition, I've previously been diagnosed with mild depression/self harm (around age 15) but I'm really quite worried and I've been suffering with this for over a year now. First off, I'm...
  13. D

    The most important person in my life is going through a psychotic episode. I need help.

    The most important person in my life is going through a psychotic episode. I need help. Hello, Someone really important to me is currently suffering from a psychotic episode. The same thing happened last year as it was drug induced the first time, and this time it was due to him completely...
  14. L

    Fake Psychosis Awareness - Recovery in the Bin

    Fake Psychosis Awareness! – recovery in the bin Sarcastic and possibly offensive to some. "A psychiatrist on social media said “it is important to differentiate between ‘real’ pseudo’ and ‘fake’ psychosis”. This psychiatrist claims to be able to do this! It is important because otherwise fake...
  15. cpuusage

    The End of Materialism

    The End of Materialism << Charles T. Tart "Charles T. Tart is internationally known for his more than 50 years of research on the nature of consciousness, altered states of consciousness (ASCs) and parapsychology, and is one of the founders of the field of Transpersonal (spiritual) Psychology...
  16. T

    Voices and self esteem

    When I was a child I had a narcissitic parent, Physical emotional verbal psychological abuse. But it was the chipping away at my self esteem the your stupid your useless you can't even... Useless freeloader your pathetic, wiped out my self esteem stocks. And now as an adult the voices tend to...
  17. J

    i feel like...

    i feel like there is nothing more important out there then what i have lost. i feel like i have lost my soul, myself or whatever you may call it. I ve lost that most important part of myself, that everyone must have. i dont sense it anymore, all there is left is this anxious me. its like i have...
  18. cpuusage

    Forgiveness of self & others

    i feel that forgiveness is a very important principle/ideal - Forgiveness - Wikipedia
  19. Kerome

    The Tao Te Ching

    I came across this lovely audiobook I wanted to share. It's very restful and peaceful and I'm told it's an excellent translation of the source material. It's basically ancient Chinese philosophy, which originated with a man named Lao Tzu (translated "Old Master") in around 550 BC. It is the...
  20. C

    Daughter`s way of thinking.

    Hello, I`m new here. I need to express my concern over my 34 year old daughter`s way of thinking. She has doubts about her sexuality and image which leads to anxiety, confusion, lack of concentration, mood swings and relationship difficulties. Just started going out with someone she met online...