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growing up

  1. M

    Relationship with parents

    Hi everyone, I am hoping to tell my story and see what everyone thinks about the situation and maybe try and figure out what’s going wrong and how I should deal with it. So - I am just about to turn 31 years old, I got married 8 months ago and purchased a house a year ago. I own my own business...
  2. Midnight.Panda

    Peter Pan Syndrome/Emotionally still like a kid

    Peter pan syndrome is basically when you can't grow up (hence the name). I read about it here. I feel like I might have it.. I am 20-years-old and I feel like I am still so childish compared to everyone else around my age. So much so that my friends and family have called me out on it. I am...
  3. G

    Growing Up and Independence

    As many of you with depression will know all too well, the feeling that everything you do in life will go wrong is a daily one. You constantly feel like you’re going to fail in everything that you do and quite a lot of the time you do tend to fail. Ever since I was about 14 (not long after I...
  4. I

    experiences in the military? daughter thinking of joining up

    Hi, I don't think my daughter is BPD exactly but she definitely has abandonment issues (long story, I'm not her birth mum, but part of her anxiety is probably my fault too). She is doing really well right now, did one semester in college and got honors, then needed a break and is thinking of...
  5. M

    Getting upset about my children getting older

    Hi I'm a dad of 41 to 2 daughters aged 15 and 9 and all of a sudden the last week I've had this overwhelming sadness about them getting growing up it's effecting my sleep and is causing me anxiety nearly panic attacks .I've had health anxiety in the past and was on Prozac for a few years but...
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    Anxiety - Constantly worrying about adult life

    Hey everyone! I've been having anxiety related problems for 3 years now, and I've been diagnosed with GAD, OCD and Panic disorder. Most times, like at the moment, I can keep my anxiety and intrusive thoughts and worries under control; but for a long time now the recurring theme of my anxiety...