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  1. N

    Meeting brother's girlfriend's parents for first time - slightly nervous/anxious

    Meeting brother's girlfriend's parents for first time - slightly nervous/anxious Hi everyone, I'm fine now, earlier this morning, I was feeling most anxioius, regarding that parents, brother and myself, together with his girlfriends parents shall all be joining up for the first time, following...
  2. B

    Never more lonely

    Today is my birthday. I woke up OK. Then an ex emailed me a birthday wish. I responded and gave a brief update. Which followed with him writing at length about his current girlfriend. This happened before but I ignored it. I say what's going on in my life and he doubles up on his...
  3. T

    Unknown disorder

    Hello I am new to these forums and this is my first post. I wanted to receive help on getting a diagnosis for my disorder here. I will start by describing myself briefly then stating my issue. I am 21 years old, I have a lot of self confidence and believe in myself. I belive I have a lot...
  4. B

    My girlfriend has bipolar

    Hi My girlfriends has bipolar and recently she has been having a manic, I took her back to the doctors and she's been referred again. I'm finding it very hard and don't know how to cope some times I'm getting so stressed I've lost my life at the moment, I love her and of course I'm by her side...
  5. Anime-Alchemy

    Getting this of my shoulders

    Well, about 30-40 minutes ago my girlfriend's family got on to my girlfriend about me getting a job or moving out. It just upsets me. I don't know if i'm ready for work. So I just want to leave and either go to the counsel to help me get a place or leave to go back to Oxford. It's upset my...
  6. Anime-Alchemy

    Girlfriend's family's dog put to sleep

    So today at around 4:45pm, my girlfriend's family's dog was put to sleep. Her name is Millie and she's a border collie. She was 15 and a half years old. I'm sad obviously about her passing but also happy, happy that I got to meet her and spend 4-6 years with her :) My girlfriend is especially...
  7. B

    Social Anxiety

    am really struggling at the moment. Quit the third job in as many months due to it. Anxious thought dominates probably 70-80% of my mental processing capacity at work. when the pressures on, more like 90%, makes me come across like an absolute idiot. I looked like such a numpty at my latest job...
  8. J

    Please help

    I have ocd and right now I'm really having trouble with thinking I may be gay but I know I'm not ive read so many articles that I can relate to I'm not even attracted to men at all but my brain is questioning that . The only gay rcourence I had was when I was 7 me And a friend had touched each...
  9. J

    Was I right or wrong

    Been a terrible year and one I can't wait to put behind me. Met a beautiful woman last October and around Xmas time we moved in together. This woman then showed her true colors, verbal and physical abusing me whenever her mood took a change for the worse, most of the time I could deal with the...
  10. B


    Hi, I'm 26 years old and suspect I have been battling with BPD for a while. I'm not going to go into details, but I will mention I have medical insurance now and will find a doctor soon. However, I want to know if anyone feels that strong intuitive sense, like me. I'm seen as a bad, negative...
  11. LoneKnight

    im so lonely

    hey everyone this one is gonna be short i'm so lonely i see everyone with girlfriends and get super jealous i start staring at the girl saying i hope she was my girlfriend does anyone else do this the whole day i just been thinking why am i so afraid of just being around people i don't know i...
  12. M

    Anxiety Problems

    Hello everyone. I've posted in the Depression sub-forum previously, but I think the root of my issues are that I am (and always have been) a very anxious person. When I was eight years old, I asked my mother how to get married. She explained to me years later that I was genuinely worrying...