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    Is my life, as I know it, over...?

    Hey guys, Basically I am looking for advice, feedback, similar experiences, any "helpful" comments actually... And this is going to be a slightly long post but I'll try to break it down to "just the facts". This has to do with reaching a "high point" in life despite all my mental health...
  2. M

    Can't fight it

    The urge to SH is overwhelming me. I've tried everything I can think of to fight the urge but nothing has worked. I need help.. Please..
  3. R

    I need a new place fast

    hey everyone I split up with my girlfriend a month ago and since then she's been verbally abusive and refusing to pay her half of the bills. She knows what triggers me and deliberately upsets me. All I want her to pay her half of the bills because I cant afford them all on my own. I'm not...
  4. Hegesias

    Confessions of a Nihilist

    Hi folks I thought I'd introduce myself and tell my story. I'll try to keep it concise and just cover the relevant points. I had a good childhood I suppose and my parents both loved me and were supportive. But right from the beginning there were warning signs that all was not well upstairs...
  5. F

    Always thinking people'll think the worst of me

    Step grandchild(youngest stepdaughter's eldest ) has asked if she can stay the night with her girlfriend on Friday. I of course said yes but have since gone into anxious/paranoid mode worrying over what the girlfriend will think of me. This fear/nervousness about strangers doesn't get any...
  6. Anime-Alchemy

    Getting this of my shoulders

    Well, about 30-40 minutes ago my girlfriend's family got on to my girlfriend about me getting a job or moving out. It just upsets me. I don't know if i'm ready for work. So I just want to leave and either go to the counsel to help me get a place or leave to go back to Oxford. It's upset my...
  7. K

    I desperately need help

    Hi. I'm new to this forum. Quick Google search led me here. I'm at the point where I don't know what to do anymore. I've been through hell with my depression and I'm literally at breaking point now. Here's a small bit of information that might help you answer me. I've suffered with depression...
  8. Anime-Alchemy

    I am a bully

    I'm in the middle of watching a programme on BBC Iplayer, it's about boyfriend's hitting their girlfriend's/domestic abuse, etc. It made me think of the times I was a bully to my girlfriend even abusive. Maybe I'm being harsh about me being abusive but still I was at the very least a bully. I...
  9. Anime-Alchemy

    Girlfriend's family's dog put to sleep

    So today at around 4:45pm, my girlfriend's family's dog was put to sleep. Her name is Millie and she's a border collie. She was 15 and a half years old. I'm sad obviously about her passing but also happy, happy that I got to meet her and spend 4-6 years with her :) My girlfriend is especially...
  10. A

    Hello guys/girls/trans-gender/animals with typing skills.

    Hi everyone. Where to start? . Let me get this out there from the off i love my girlfriend very much, She would stick by me no matter what but i hate burdening her with my issues. She has stuck by me when i have been unfaithful in the past and even when i betrayed her again she put her faith in...
  11. G

    Never had a girlfriend at 27, used to look very good but aged badly, feel cheated by life

    Never had a girlfriend at 27, used to look very good but aged badly, feel cheated by life I feel horrible about my reason for my depression because even to me it feels like a stupid reason but I can't help it. Backstory: I'm a guy, 27 and have never had a girlfriend. What destroys me is that...
  12. W


    Hi A little background (sorry if it's all mixed up, just wrote it as I though of course It all.) I feel like I have being suffering in silence for a very long time, since I was 13 i'm 32 soon. I live with my parents and don't see it changing. I missed 3 years of school due to hospitals...