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    In the end there was only regret

    I don't know where to start. But, I guess I am writing this to pull myself away from the edge. I may just be overthinking, I mean that has been the only thing I could do for the past few years as I seem to have lost most of my emotions. I've finished college in my late 20's, money was from my...
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    An episode of some kind?

    Hello there. I would like to ask for your opinion on something that happened to me the other night, something that has never happened before and it's got me quite worried. I'll get straight to the point. I played a gig the other night. All my mates were there and my girlfriend of six months. It...
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    Ex had schizophrenia but its still making me depressed

    I was 25 and she was 21, when we met. We got to know each other, she seemed perfect and i was falling for her and i could see even she was. So we started meeting regularly and one day she proposed me, i obviously said Yes. I was happy and on top of the world.She was petite and she was the...
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    job question

    Well I have been working at McDonalds for 12 days now. My stepbrother is doing really well at the supermarket that he works in and is getting invited to work parties, he has a gf and is younger then me getting good benefits and he is going to move in with his gf after finishing at UNI I don't...
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    The misery consumes what shall I do?

    Hello All, I have a history of depression that spans almost 15 years on and off. I am about to turn 35 and I really am feeling down about life right now, I am so bored with everything and everyone. I feel like I am just going through the motions to stay alive. I do not have any friends, I have...
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    Is it wrong to do certain things to my girlfriend who is bulimic?

    Hello, I have been in a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend for almost 8 years now. I love her very much, want to marry her etc; She told me she suffered from ED, specifically bulimia, she had anorexia as well but that was very short lived, she also went to study psychology for 3 years to...
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    Depression / Low confidence

    Hi all, I am 28 and I have zero belief in myself and no ambition. Throughout my 20s have suffered from depression/anxiety. I just feel now at 28 that I have left it too late to succeed and I have just settled for average jobs. Have been at my current job for 18 months and I just feel stuck...
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    Hi Everyone

    Hello, I did a search on mental health and came upon this site. I've been searching for somewhere that I could talk to others about autistic spectrum disorder. My Niece who is 8 months pregnant and living with me at this time has this. I'm beyond frustrated because I don't know how to...
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    Trying to understand my sister's personality and actions

    I am 18 years old and my sister is 20. We have lived in the same house with our parents since our births. I am making this post because I have been at a loss as to why she acts the way she does, and I feel it may be related to a personality disorder. I will try to describe her personality and...
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    Feel so low

    I feel so low. I just want a girlfriend. I have not been happy for so long. My stepbrother has a nice girlfriend, drives, goes to UNI and has a part time job. My stepsister has a boyfriend and all the things my stepbrother does I have nothing :low:
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    I need help, I don't know what to do

    I have tried 7cups and every place I could find on google, but this is my last hope to actually talk to someone. I don't know where to begin, I haven't had a job since I left the Army, I left the Army because of rising medical issues. I first tried getting help in the Army after deployment, my...
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    Girlfriend has threatened suicide. Looking for advice please.

    Hey everyone. First, I just want to say my girlfriend is alright right now, but I'm extremely worried and concerned about her. I've done my very best to be there for her comforting her, listening to her, and supporting her. And even though she says I've helped her, and that she'll never act on...
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    Gf’s ex still hangs out with her, what to do?

    It’s been a few months now since I got into a relationship with this woman from Colombia. We met each other through an international dating site online called LoveMe. Her last relationship ended about a year ago and since then, she’s kept a strong friendship with her ex-lover. I trust that...
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    I need help

    Ever since I can remember, I have never really had many friends, we all went to different unis and now in my final year of university. To combat this, I met my girlfriend 2 years ago and have spent nigh on basically everyday with her since then. I’ve loved every second but since I’ve never had...
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    My story

    Hi all, I'm here to look for help with my depression. I'm a 25 years old male. My story: I guess my depression started around 4 years ago in my previous relationship. We were together for 4 years and it ended when she went studying abroad for few months. When she came back she said she was...
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    My Girlfriend is suffering from depression and its affecting our time together. (I think)

    My Girlfriend is suffering from depression and its affecting our time together. (I think) Hello. before i start i want to apologise for any typos or mistakes in my writing, i am not the smartest and best with my english. My name is Josh and i'm 18 years old, i have a Girlfriend who is 17...
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    Girlfriend changed completely within 2 days.

    Hello fellow forum members. I am with my girlfriend for 5 months now, but intensely attached to be honest. Both of us dreamed from total freedom living a freelancing lifestyle and exploring the world together. We are basically traveling for the whole time we know each other. Being 24/7 together...
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    Relationship with girlfriend

    Hi folks I'm posting here to try and get some perspective of some issues that me and my girlfriend are going through. I will post our background and try and keep it as brief as possible... Me (38) and my girlfriend (34) have been together for 7 years, we lived together for 2 years and we...
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    I'm afraid I am having a relapse.

    Hello everyone, I joined this forum last year. I was diagnosed with depression in my teens and had never gotten any kind of treatment for it. It finally got to a point very early last year where I couldn't take any more. I eventually did visit my GP and talked it over with him. He put me on...
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    HELP in Long distance relationships

    Hi all, This is my first thread in this forum so I’m sorry if I sounded messy and all over the place. I just wrote this all down and would like to have some advice on how to communicate with my depressed girlfriend when I’m also feeling affected. So I met my girlfriend three years ago when...