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    Contact or no contact with ex BPD girlfriend?

    Hi All I broke up with my girlfriend in June, not because I don't love her, but because the relationship was destroying us both. The first 5 months was ok, we had occasional problems, but the second 5 months got progressively worse, she had frequent crisis and the stress of seeing her self-harm...
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    This illness has ripped me apart

    I can't take it anymore. the police came to my house a few days ago because a support website thought i was going to hurt myself. they were wrong. I want to die not hurt myself. I just want it all to end. this is something that none of my friends family teachers, the police the therapists can...
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    Leaving my BPD girlfriend after 9 months

    Hi all I have decided to leave my girlfriend after 9 months. It wasn't an easy decision to make but I feel it is the only option I have. The problem is that whenever I say something she doesn't like she becomes really emotional and hurts herself or threatens suicide and I get scared and take...
  4. J

    How to Handle Girlfriend's Mania

    A girlfriend is currently going through her 4th or 5th manic episode since 2006. All the usual symptoms are there: having higher-than-normal energy levels being restless or unable to sit still having a decreased need for sleep having increased self-esteem or confidence, or grandiosity being...
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    Girlfriend finally left, couldn't take my episodes

    My girlfriend of 1 year left me, after trying to take care of me despite my episodes, she understood and tried to help whenever she could despite her having BPD, but she had enough and left, this has all happened with my past relationships and friendships, they couldn't take it and left.. I...
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    Another Christmas topic

    Christmas sucks for an introverted guy like me who has depression/social anxiety. Meeting up with family who I haven’t seen or talked to since last year, doing the whole kiss on the cheek hello thing, spending 8 hours stuck indoors hopelessly trying to make conversation, not being able to think...
  7. G

    New..

    Hello , My name is John .(Dont wanna display my real full name). I'm 25 years old For couple years living abroad.. And suffering from mental illnes , loneliness, self-protection from outside world , scared to take risk... But my goal to seek help here and hide all thoes symptones , how danish...
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    Husband no help at all

    Anyone have any idea what to do with hubby who pretends there is no problem? Long story short... We've been married 18 years and have 3 boys and a girl. He, knowing full well that cheating would be the one thing that I couldn't handle at all, went ahead and did it anyway. Well, after walking...
  9. P

    Today has been a disaster

    Hello everyone, A bit of background to my mental health issues. I used to date this girl for 5 years, she recently broke up with me and has become very close to a mutual friend of ours. We were 16 when we first started dating, and we currently live together. One of the things that I regret most...
  10. J

    ROCD out of nowhere

    Hi, this is my first time posting at this forum. So, I have a girlfriend for some time now and I love her so much, you know how it goes. But recently, out of nowhere, thoughts started coming to my mind. I'm constantly asking myself do i love her, do i feel happy with her as I did some time ago...
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    Girlfriend's Lies....

    Now everytime me and my girlfriend argue, I've notificed she lies to everyone around her. I'll admit I looked at her messages, a big no-no I know! But knowing how she is I knew I needed to see what she'd been saying about me. So this entire week we'd been arguing, about not spending Christmas...
  12. InfinitumDaydreams

    I want to dissapears - I don't know how to improve

    I fail, everything is wrong. I don't feel hapiness and sadness, i don't feel anything, i just not have enough energy to do the basic. Take a shower , or brush a teeth, anything. I don't want to talk with people, my energy disappear so fast and i want to go home, for my bed, for my computer...
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    Relationship anxiety

    Hi, I’m new here, I’m a 37 year old Dad with 2 children. I recently ended a relationship with my girlfriend. It’s the 3rd or 4th time I’ve done it now. She has been nothing but supportive, yet I continue to push her away. I am blessed in that I have 2 happy, healthy children. My children are...
  14. MotherLion

    Finding the strength to move on from bad relationship

    It's taking a lot for me to write this. I'm worried that I may get caught writing this. I'm in a bad relationship. I don't want to exaggerate things at all, my boyfriend is not a monster but if he knew I was writing this then.. I don't know. He's not violent. Well, if he raises a hand to me...
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    My Girlfriend's Miscarriage

    Sighhhh so everyone knows how horrific a miscarriage is....two people who would literally give anything to see their child born....so when that doesn't happen you can imagine what that does to the "parents".....I can't get used to saying that... I could have been a dad.... I'm going off track...
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    I don’t know what to do or feel

    Hi, I am very new to this and don’t really know how to explain what is up with me but it seems like my glass is always half empty. I have negative thoughts about absolutely everything, for example, my ex girlfriend told me about a holiday she had 5 years ago and i automatically thought she had...
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    Bpd in me

    My entire life I knew something was mentally wrong with me. I always kept my depressed and suicidal thoughts to myself. Three years ago I was diagnosed with BPD I haven't been taking it well because I don't want anything negative to define me. This year I have been very low cutting of friends...
  18. K

    I honestly don't know whats going on in my head Trigger warning

    Hi, I'm Kieran and I've constantly battled my own brain. I don't really know where to start with this. So I'm only 21 and doing reasonably well for myself with my own flat and a good paying job but my constant daily battle has been going on a lot longer since moving out which I had push myself...
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    Please help - I don't know what to do.

    Hi all, I really hope this site will help me to find the help and advice that I need and give me some support because I just don't know where to turn to or who to speak to. My son is in his early 20's and was diagnosed with psychosis about 4 years ago. He has never accepted his diagnosis and...
  20. S

    How to get a girlfriend

    Im 25, Im single, How do I get a girlfriend. I am running out of time. My stepsiblings have people they love. I don't what the fucking hell can i do
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