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  1. H

    suicidal, no friends, no GF, mentally and physically exhausted

    My whole life is study. I'm studying Commerce right now, and I'm alone every single day. I wake up alone, eat all three meals alone, watch TV alone, go to sleep alone, study alone... I feel so tired sometimes, I can't even lift my arm to grab a TV remote. I'm 25, still a virgin, never had a GF...
  2. W

    I’m not sure what to do

    I got in a relationship with a girl I deeply fancied in early 2018 and for the first weeks things where intense, but great. Suddenly, I started having random doubts about whether I actually liked her at all and wasn’t able to shake them; despite the fact I cry everytime she goes away for a...
  3. valleygirl

    More and more depressed

    Depression is just getting worse and worse. I keep forgetting to call the pharmacy to get my prescriptions filled - I have been diagnosed with Bipolar 2 with mainly depressive episodes, BPD, anxiety, and PTSD. I missed my last appointment with my psychiatrist because I thought it was booked...
  4. R

    my sister

    i think my sister came from malta to brum yesterday, i haven’t heard anything, she’ll be at my elder sisters with my brother who can’t walk visiting mother in home in brum she was 9 and i was 19, remember talking to her about suicide, a 9yr old girl, she hasn’t spoken to me for decades...
  5. J

    This Is How My Neighbour Has Driven Me

    Just to key in with what's going on a neighbour moved in above me last February and is extremely noisy. He can have music, the washing machine and his vacuum cleaner going all night long and I'm loosing tons of sleep cos of him. He won't even let me have my own privacy like letting me talk to...
  6. A

    Has anyone ever acted totally out of character

    I suffered from OCD, anxiety and depression from the age of 14. I was always an extremely shy, sensitive kid. I was always a tad paranoid about whether people liked me or not. I had very low self esteem. At the age of 19 I became very self destructive. I didn't care about myself anymore. I put...
  7. S

    Sad results

    Hi, I'm a 36, I work in construction and suffer from bipolar disorder. I've taken today off work because im struggling but felt I had to make some lame excuse because bipolar (a huge killer) isn't good enough. The reason I'm writing this post is because I stumbled upon a girl who had taken her...
  8. M

    I am a bully

    Hi I did something unforgiveable last night. For 10 years, my partner and I argue non-stop. I was 100% at fault. If he makes a mistake, I would blame him and shout at him so much like it is the end of the world. I put him down all the time as if he is completely useless. As he was growing...
  9. L

    I just need some understanding

    I met a girl on POF (dating website). I met the girl irl(in real life). I took on a date. The date went really well. She come to my place and got drunk after. We had sex. She stated that she loved another guy. But she believes he doesn't love her. They are broken up (she is single). Now she says...
  10. valleygirl

    Depression Getting Worse

    It was helping to have my lists of tasks, but then that went by the wayside too. I don't know why it's so bad now. It hasn't been this bad in a long time. I suppose it's linked to my insomnia, which is getting worse and worse. And there is a little girl at work who is terribly afraid of me...
  11. M

    Want some opinions. ( Sorry this is reaaaal long)

    Well, my life has been quite interesting, everyone says that and everyone is right in some regard, no one has experienced what you have the same way that you have. But that's not the topic. I grew up with some severe medical issues that have impacted my life later on that I was blissfully...
  12. D

    How do I make a girl with bad anxiety who like me feel comfortable with being aepround me.

    How do I make a girl with bad anxiety who like me feel comfortable with being aepround me. She is such a beautiful girl and she seem very intelligent. The problem Is she is often feeling tense and nervous that I could feel it from her body language. I did notice signs from her that she likes me...
  13. J

    I can't stop

    Yesterday I managed to talk myself out of hurting myself it was the first time posting on here and I actually felt better getting the words out but today is a whole different story.. I went to work and have never felt so alone so out of place the girl that gets talked about.. The replaceable...
  14. B

    Obsessive thoughts that I’m a bad person.

    The last weekend of January 2017 I was out drinking in town with my friends and I was pretty hammered. I remember being in a club looking down at my phone in my hands and when I raised my head there was a girl I’d never seen before right in my face. I could tell instantly she wasn’t interested...
  15. G

    How to not be terrified of women?

    I'm a 25 year old guy who's never had a real relationship outside family, in his life. I've never kissed a girl and never even held a girls' hand. I've had a few friendships but not what you'd call a relationship. I'm surprised I even made it that far lol. I've had panic attacks around girls...
  16. E

    I am at my wits end - I don't know what to do any more!

    Hey, Summary: My boyfriend has a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder and ADHD. He has an awful children that has lead to him experiencing fears of anxiety, abandonment, self esteem issues, impulsive behaviour and a drug issue. He no longer uses drugs since entering a relationship with...
  17. O

    My TOCD story

    I’m so scared... So I’m a 19 year old girl (I hope), and my TOCD is taking over everything. It feels like I just switched personality somehow. This is my story. As very young child I loved black and dark things, and my parents kind of didnt really treat me like a specific gender. By that I...
  18. M

    Stuck in a loop and it's affecting everything for me

    Hello, I am a 29 year old wife and mother with everything that I could possibly want in life but a few times a year I suffer with extremely low mood and, although I haven't had a diagnosis of depression from a doctor, I am fairly certain that's what causes it through looking at mental health...
  19. J

    How Do I Talk To This Latina Girl?

    I use xat which is a website of chatrooms. Not so long ago out of been bored I sent a kiss emoji to a random girl whilst in this Mexican radio chat listening to Spanish music. At first she wondered what I was doing like all girls would do. Using translation I told her I couldn't help it and I...
  20. J

    Looking for some help a guidance while my girlfriend battles through depression

    Looking for some help a guidance while my girlfriend battles through depression I've never been good at these things but given my current situation I need help!! I have been dating this wonderful girl for the past 6 almost 7 months, she is truly amazing and our chemistry was like magic pure...