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  1. J

    Trying to ask this guy out 😬

    Hi all, I’m 21 male and I’ve had like anxiety all flipping week about this guy I saw working in a retail shop, he is mega cute and I wanna ask him out but my anxiety is stopping me 😅 I’ve been there 3 times this week just to see him again and he’s giving looks but I can’t tell if he is gay or...
  2. RoseGoldBoi

    Being gay in a small town. Loneliness is getting to me.

    I'm 21 and have not been in a releationship yet. I live in a small town with heck all to do. Sometimes I'll go out to scope around for attractive dudes but it can be hard to leave the house knowing this is such a boring town with mostly non gay folk. Also I have a low IQ with ADHD so I don't...
  3. C

    HOCD? i think and hope i have it? But i dont even know at this point

    Im an 18 year old male and I have always been confident in my straight sexuality for a long time. I have had self-esteem issues for a quite sometime in the past before this hit but nothing about my sexuality. I have never had a girlfriend but had crushes on cute girls who didnt like me back.I...
  4. S

    Looking for advice

    Hi all. Quick history, diagnosed with ocd few years back known have had it for years since I was a kid. Have had severe depression and early this year was put on lactimal/lamotrigine (low dose increasing steadily) with suspected bipolar which isn’t a surprise with the last few years (also...
  5. Q

    HOCD and advice

    Hello everyone, first things first I have struggled with anxiety for about 10 years and have had depression for about three years (currently on 20mg citalopram). About 10 years ago I was in high school, attraction to girls was fine and I did everything a normal teenager did. Yet, I began...
  6. G

    Hocd or gay??

    I'll tell you my story. I'm 19 and I'm a virgin, because I did not have the opportunity and I never called that, I always looked at girls. Since I was a child I've always been normal, I used to play with a cart, a ball, a boy's play, even when I was young I started to notice girls more...
  7. E

    HOCD scared, please help

    Hey everyone, To preface, I'm a 22 yo M, I'm 100% supportive of the LGBT community, and I have been prone to OCD my whole life. I guess before I get to the main point, I might as well say that I've had OCD in some form since the chickenpox outbreak in Fourth Grade. I never got infected, but I...
  8. J

    I have a lot to get off my chest.

    Hello to everyone. Warning: This being my first post, I am going to unload and this will get lengthy. I tried to post it all at once but apparently it was too long so I am going to break it up into sections. A lot of the things I'm going to reveal here I have not told a soul until now but I...
  9. B

    HOCD relapse?

    Hello all, just got some stuff on my mind that I want to get off my chest as I usually find that posting on forums helps with anxiety.. Not necessarily to seek reassurance (only very partly, I know it's bad to do that but still), but laying out all my thoughts helps me keep calm, and I find it...
  10. G

    Please ...

    Bear with me, please. I've been depressed since I was a kid, ive never really had one of those happy moments and no I had no friends, I used to be lonely by nature though smart at school. Dad abusing of my mother and I was awful(we're away from him now). I'm gay, I used to talk to a lot of...
  11. A

    Hocd or bi? Please help

    Hi everyone, I have recently been going through a really tough couple of weeks with anxiety. I’ve always been an anxious person and I have had hypochondria in the past, obsessed with worries I have cancer or their illnesses. Recently my worries has focused on being gay, or what if I’m gay. I’d...
  12. I

    HOCD or normal?

    Hi, I have in the past been diagnosed with Pure-O by a therapist and have clear signs of many different types of OCD that revolve around sexual themes like incest OCD, homosexual OCD and so on the list is literally endless and exhausting. I should probably also state that I'm a 20 year old guy...
  13. C

    Fear Im gay ?

    Ok so recently I've been getting better and better over my last previous fear (suicide or killing) occasionally think about it however the fear of being gay is becoming a thing now. I've never wanted to be with a man or been attracted to one but I've always been attracted to girls. Is it...
  14. M

    Struggling with anxiety but don't know how to get help

    Hello everyone, This is my first time writing anything about my mental health, so apologies if it's in the wrong place, but I'm really struggling right now and I don't know what to do. I'm a 20 year old gay male, and for the last few years I have been experiencing waves of intense periods...
  15. I

    I've had enough.

    My name's Morgan, I'm a 37 year old gay male with bipolar and I'm reaching out for help. I've tried so many times since the age of 13 when I first started being depressed about the opressions of life and not accepting being gay. I was diagnosed with depression at 19 and Bipolar at 24, I have...
  16. S

    Depressed, Suicidal, and a Dead Man walking!

    Hello, I have been battling depression for a few years now. I am Gay and I've been struggling for years to come to terms with my sexual orientation. As a child, I was abused multiple times but I never spoke to anyone about it. I always wanted to be the perfect child. I am not going to go into...
  17. P

    Another year of hellish supermarket hell

    I hate supermarkets so much, can't stand the depressing aisles of food and then there's the prices and having to get back in a taxi, I feel like I can't be bothered anymore going to shop for food, I've been doing it too long, I'm fed up of it.I'm also suffering from depression, I'm sick of...
  18. P

    Loneliness and fear and nobody gives a damn

    Thank you for ignoring my post, I thought this was supposed to be a supportive place? I can't be the only one with gay issues, i hate being gay its such a nightmare, it ravages your life,ruins your mind and relationships with friends and family.I wish I didn't have an underwear problem, it's...
  19. P

    Gay fetish problem and depression and distress

    I just can't stop the obsessive thoughts about wanting to see and smell men's underwear, I hate being like this, just obsessed with the idea,had it sinceci was six, im now in my forties and no friends , I feel my life is over, there's no future as a gay man with autism, nobody wants to know...
  20. Tired Daisy

    Is being attracted to the same sex a bad thing

    Hi there, I'm openly admitting to being attracted to the same sex. I like cross dressers and transgenders and I watch emo gay and gay goth stuff on the net, I don't like the manly look tho but I have always been turned on by guys that are females if you know what I mean lol regular woman are...
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