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  1. D


    I have a small group of very good friends who I have known for years and a long term boyfriend. Lately i've been under a lot of pressure and it has made me close off because I know that no one understands my thought processes, how of feel of my anxiety/depression. I just want a friend to talk...
  2. B

    My life.

    I don't want to write a massive piece on my life because it doesn't really matter does it? All I really want to say is I can't take my life anymore. I'm 23 the only job I'v had was Mcdonalds and I got mocked a fair bit by people I used to go to school with because they had better jobs. I ended...
  3. H

    What happened?

    So...a while ago some 3 months. I broke up with my gf. I was broken, because i am unexpirienced in it.I couldnt let go. But I was still stalking my ex, all the time because we share all classes together. A day would pass and I would spend time analyzing why is she like that how she feels etc...
  4. J

    My everyday thoughts routine

    No matter how much positive vibes I read or tips I do sadness still punch me in the face and I'm sick of it ,im sick of feeling clueless in any conversation and not knowing what's going on , I feel like drowning in ocean the more I live the more I get drown .. It gets colder and I can't hear...
  5. E

    My Boyfriend is the Only Friend I Have Left

    I’m 20 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. Things have been good until recently when my best friend, Cara and I stopped talking. I loved our adventures and goofy talks, she was basically me except she was very high maintanance and it was hard to keep up with all...
  6. U

    Getting help

    I’ve been struggling with my mental health for a couple years now and I’ve never really done anything about it because I’m a very private person and don’t like to let people see me upset/ emotional etc. I finally told a friend about how I’ve been feeling and she’s told me she thinks it’s a good...
  7. P

    my best friend

    Can anyone offer any advice for me or do I have to just suck it up and accept she’s gone and never coming back? 6 months ago my best and only friend a walked out on my life. She won’t ever explain why and when I was why she doesn’t want to be friend the standard petulant response is because I...
  8. T

    What have you done that your proud of yourself fo

    Giving up drinking Making friends Fighting my way through dark days What are you,proud of yourself for?
  9. F

    What is wrong with me.

    I am a 19 year old from the UK currently at university. I am writing this post because I feel like I have been battling with my own head my entire life. My life has felt like a roller coaster throughout my childhood and I just want to know what is wrong with me. I've decided to post this on the...
  10. P


    I had a friend walk out of my life 5 months ago. I still don’t know why all that I know she got a boyfriend and ditched me. We have been friends for 7 years. We did a lot together every weekend. I work with this person too which is torture. I have been struggling with loneliness all this time...

    Have you changed?

    I feel I used to be an arrogant twit. Losing my job, going through a mental health crisis has made me more introverted and thoughtful. I thought I was clever but I was stupid and made a hash of things. I like to think I have lost a lot of my arrogance now. I tend to think that I have lost...
  12. Kerome

    Thoughts on wrong friends and causes of the afflictions

    Today I wanted to share with you a reflection on how friends influence us, and so how it is important that we choose the right kinds of friends to help us on our path. This was brought on by reading this speech by the Venerable Thubten Chodron, a Buddhist nun and teacher. Causes of the...