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  1. garbageg4

    I'm sorry to all

    I guess I say everything wrong and do everything wrong. No one wants to talk to me anymore off line or here on this forum. Hope people can forgive me for whatever it was that I did. Like i told you all, all I do is screw things up no matter where I am. Sorry.
  2. C

    i can't forgive my dad

    my father passed away 2 years ago, and needless to say with his bipolar, tendencies all thru my life, i dealt with a lot. constant moving almost every year to a different state, affairs, non participation in my life or my childrens, just so much more that make me angry. I inherited his...
  3. M

    How would you deal with this situation?

    What if you broke down in front of someone because you were fed up with life and because of it, that person was basically forced into a situation where they had to help you and they stayed at your house for hours? How would you get over the shame and embarrassment of it? And forgive yourself for...
  4. M

    How (I think) our cultural values feed depression. Do you agree?

    Anger is bad. You must not feel it. You must forgive those who have hurt you. And if a parent abused you, you must not only forgive them but take care of them in their declining years. You must be nice. Better to let other people walk all over you than to appear unkind. Feeling down? Just get...
  5. I

    Forgiving abusers

    As you all know. My mother was very abusive to me. But after all she is still my mom. I am really wanting to forgive her and have a good relationship with her. Have any of you ever forgave an abuser?
  6. S

    Anxiety and guilt

    So I have mixed feelings about my relationship with my mother. We were very close when I was a child and teen. Due to this I went through a lot of trauma. My mother has many mental and physical health issues. When she found out that I was molested by my uncle, her brother, he was there begging...
  7. Tired Daisy

    Being close to death

    All the people that did me wrong in life and those who judged me and hated me at the end of the day I don't blame them we are all human and I forgive all. We are at the end of days now and I have nothing left but my honesty, the real person who I am and I understand and respect those who have...
  8. I

    Forgiving your abusers (warning may trigger)

    As you know my mother was severely abusive to me when I was a child. She abused me in every way possible. I was bullied also as a child and had been jumped a lot of times by groups of people. Although it is very difficult, almost impossible, I feel it would be a good idea for me to FORGIVE them...
  9. A

    My Suicide letter

    Im not going to kill myself even though thats all that goes through my mind. If i did, this would be the letter. Not that anyone cares, but its a very good exercise that i recommend. Share yours if you feel like it. love x "I just want to start by saying that its not anyones fault. The main...
  10. G

    fiction vs. reality

    I honestly am tired of reality. I don't know what is wrong with me. I don't act that strange, I'm pretty sure I was drugged today when someone gave me a drink. I drove for three hours lost because I couldn't remember where I was. Then ended up hanging out with a friend. I don't think I have...
  11. A


    Hi my name is Sandra I'm new to this please forgive me if I offend anyone I was just looking for someone to talk with I really want to end my life
  12. R

    visitors permit

    my neighbour had 3 women visitors so i offered to get a visitors permit on the computer, it’s cheaper and a chance to show off to women It was a pound they’ve now gone up to 1 50, i tries to get a blue badge i could give to visitors, but got turned down on the grounds i can walk with a gps...
  13. cpuusage

    True forgiveness is recognizing there is nothing to forgive.

    True Forgiveness is Recognizing there is nothing to Forgive. http://johngroberg.com/true-forgiveness-seeing-there-is-nothing-to-forgive/ 3 Unconventional Tips for Forgiving and Letting Go
  14. Kerome

    Eight Essentials to Forgiveness

    We have all suffered hurts and betrayals. Choosing to forgive is a way to release the distress that arises again and again from the memory of these incidents—but forgiveness is often a long and difficult process. This exercise outlines several steps that are essential to the process of...
  15. megirl

    Feeling good.....

    I have been feeling the best I have for a long time bit un-motivated but I just need to have a few goals to keep my brain on track! I have put on almost 3 kgs over the silly season so thats a pain but however i have hardly done any exercise really the poor dogs been missing out I am sure he...
  16. B

    I've been having different thoughts about something from a while ago

    Ok, in the past I've posted about an ex-friend. They made a big deal of being with me, and soon after we started dating, cheated on me and went behind my back. I was stuck in halls for uni and as such I tried to be civil, however, they kept giving me mixed signals and half truths until...
  17. Purr38

    Why people hate you

    5 Ways You're Accidentally Making Everyone Hate You | Cracked.com The part about being higher ranking than others did hit home. Being educated, healthy, having nice things, looking smart with nice clothes and going on holidays they cannot afford because they chose, i said chose, to have...
  18. V

    Schizoaffective sibling

    Hello everybody, my sister (20) has been diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder (depressive type) a couple of years ago. She was a very kind, loving child which changed dramatically around the age of 10 (yes, that early). We live in a 3rd world country and she was not diagnosed until...
  19. nonotme

    I'm sorry

    to everyone for not being the person I shaould be, letting people down and not being a good person. I hope everyone can forgive me.
  20. dubblemonkey

    it's difficult to survive this way

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5l0g19Xs3w some sounds make sense ... forgive me ...xxoo