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favorite person

  1. WildBirds

    Everyone Besides "Favorite Person" Feels Artificial

    Can anyone relate, or does anyone have any advice? I've recently become friends with the sweetest girl, and while I love her very much, and I've cut off contact with my "favorite person," it feels like they're the only real person in the universe and that by cutting them out of my life, I'm...
  2. K

    Dissociation and the Favorite person...

    Hey everyone, so I have a question for anyone who has borderline personality disorder. My fiance is schizophrenic with bpd and I know without a shadow of a doubt that I am his favorite person. Right now he is in prison and our contact is extremely limited but the idealization and dissociation...
  3. R

    My teacher was my FP. How do I move on?

    I had a teacher in high school who I got attached to. She allowed me to be in her class all 4 years. I've literally never even had a friendship last that long. No one in my life has ever acted as caring as she was toward me, and so I started seeing her as a mother figure. I frequently feared...
  4. D

    Imprinting/Splitting/"Favorite Person"

    I got a diagnosis of bpd about a year ago and in that time I've done as much reading as I possibly can about it. One of the parts in not finding much about is this idea of a "favorite person," which as I understand is a term coined by the bpd community. first of all I'm glad I'm not the only...