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  1. MeropeneM

    Suspecting my mother of BPD and PTSD

    Hello fellows, I'm Jester but you can also call me Proxy or Mero. I had a recent discussion with my mother, in her 60s, openly diagnosing her of borderline and explaining how her episodes, motives, ulterior justifications and shifts from idealization to devaluation don't make a lot of sense. I...
  2. 0

    oops I overshared again

    Hello, I just found this forum while googling about eating disorders forums but now that I'm trying to introduce myself I can't decide where to start from (maybe I should blame my food coma for that). To keep it relatively short, I've been dealing with compulsive overeating (is this the right...
  3. R

    New and unsure

    I suppose the the best way to do this is dive right in. Obviously, I am new here and recently I have been experiencing overwhelming anxiety. Due to the anxiety, I have trouble sleeping, my muscles tense to point they feel as if they are going to tear, and I get the urge break things (or just...
  4. P

    Father of my boyfriend gave inappropiate touch

    Hello, I need some advice on how to handle a difficult situation. My boyfriend and I have been a couple for more than 5 years and we get along very well. We are crazy in love with each other and plan to spend the rest of our lives together. On one day we went food shopping with my boyfriend's...
  5. qwerty1234

    I don't have enough friends.

    This is terrific. I feel a ton better, less out of whack, less stressed, more relaxed and self aware. Less distracted, less anxious. However, I have problems with relationships and humans relationships, especially interpersonal. I want to be closer with people but I am too eager. I am like...
  6. N

    Unwell Father

    Hi Folks, For some weeks, my fat her has been suffering with high blood pressure, then was fine, a bit, and whilst away, he couldn't enjoy the holiday, due to that, and not feeling right also. I have now been reassurred, that father who is always in med denial, has been agreeable been seen by...
  7. T

    Disfunctional household

    My parents were not meant to be together and stayed together longer than they should have. Incompatibly, tragedy and all. I was born months after a tragedy. It was too soon for me to come here. Way too soon. Then my sibling months later. Too much going on off the back. From then on I grew up in...
  8. N

    Unwell Father - My father

    HI, Afternoon Folks, Unfortunately, from Monday, or over the weekend not sure exactly now, my father hasn't been at all well, first off he had a sore throat, that then virtually cleared just on the day later on, when he had a GP appointment; then, all of the sudden, from yesterday, and...
  9. R

    Selfish parents

    I'm so so so upset. My parents are such selfish people. I keep defending them because I feel guilty when I tell the truth. But honestly, they're selfish people. I'm trying to become a vegan, and I'm starting out as vegetarian first. Today my mom tricked me into eating meat. I explained it on...
  10. M

    Hey everyone!

    I am new here, future psychiatrist and extraordinaire survivor of sexual abuse and mental abuse. First of all, I am doing my therapy and it is ok, except the anger I feel whenever I think about my abusers which is pretty normal. I am looking for some insight because I think that it will help me...
  11. A

    My family found out I‘m harming myself

    Hello everyone, so I‘ve been injuring myself for a few months and my brother finally found out. I overheard him telling it my mom, my father wasn‘t home at this time. That happened a good hour ago at the time writing this. My father must be home by now and she probably told him already. I‘m...
  12. C

    Any Ideas?

    Hi, everyone! I came to this forum with hopes that some of you might be able to tell me if this situation is familiar to you, what you did about it, or maybe just clue me in as to what this could be called. I’ve tried Google searching anything I can think of and can’t find anything that matches...
  13. alohomora

    Who am I? Also, relapse.

    Hello everyone, I am quite new to this forum, but I've posted two times already for two different problems (one being self-harm, the other my father's illness and family issues associated). A little background before I write a novel that I already thank you for reading : I've been self-harming...
  14. B

    son going down

    My son decided to stay out all night after doing extended walking around the city. Then he got in the hospital ED where he had a white blood cell problem and dehydration. Then admitted to Medicine then to Pysch. He refuses to have much to do with me and I am afraid of him ending up living on the...
  15. S

    Noisy Neighbours

    Ok I don't want to sound like I am moaning but this is getting on my nerves. I have lived in my house for almost 10 years, I had neighbours before these ones moved in which is almost 2 years, the ones before these were horrible neighbours but they were not as bad as these ones. There is the...
  16. C

    Hey There!

    Hey All, This is my first time visiting a forum about mental health. I've never even considered myself of having any issues until a recent event with my father happened and has changed the way I think. Now I am struggling with how to handle it and thought there would be some people here who...
  17. P

    Help coping with partner

    The signs have always been their. After a few years of dating my wife, I intentionally went out of my way to avoid meeting or seeing my mother-in-law. In my eyes I perceived her as a "nasty" woman. She was always wronged by somebody and only ever saw the worst in people. She regularly...
  18. alohomora

    Family issues, need opinions!

    Hello everyone, I need your opinions on a subject that I don't know how to deal with, more than an answer or support. Here's a little background to the story so you can understand better. My father and his younger brother, whom I'm very close to, have always had a very complicated...
  19. A

    I hate my father (and myself)

    I am a 25 years old female. I hate my father. Since he was young, he was addicted to some kind of idealism / religious way of life, namely asceticism. It caused him to refuse anything related the world (money/wealth), and he was so proud of his idealism. He thinks money is beneath him, and that...
  20. K

    Schizophrenic diagnosis

    I've had about 4 psychotic breakdowns over 17 years. These seem to be brought on when being unable to sleep for a couple of days. These experiences last for a week or so and it's if I'm trapped in the afterlife whilst still being alive. I hallucinate at the time and dealing with balancing peace...