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  1. G

    Obsessive thoughts and embarrassment

    I analyze every interaction that I have with people and almost always find something embarrassing that I did. Or something I might have accidentally done to upset the person. Then the thoughts repeat in my head over and over and they come with a really embarrassed feeling. It’s hard for me to...
  2. M

    How would you deal with this situation?

    What if you broke down in front of someone because you were fed up with life and because of it, that person was basically forced into a situation where they had to help you and they stayed at your house for hours? How would you get over the shame and embarrassment of it? And forgive yourself for...
  3. I

    I'm an embarrassment

    I always and still do say, do something, or act in a way that really embarrasses me!! That alone makes me want to kill myself! :mad: I just wonder what most people think of me? How do I forgive myself for always embarrassing myself? How do I stop from embarrassing myself? :redface: I feel like a...
  4. P

    Therapist betrayal

    Not sure if I'm posting in the right place? I'll make this as brief as possible, please bear with me. Been in therapy for 10 years, depression, relationship issues, multiple physical health issues. Recently due to health issues and medications I've been rendered impotent. (That means the...
  5. R

    Thinking out loud

    New to the forum. Speaking my internal monologue out loud when in high pressure social situations. Very embarrassing Anyone else do this?
  6. R

    rederral for support worker turned down

    spoke to housing officer, the support worker organisation lookahead she spoke to, i used to have a support worker there, they say support is for 2 yrs then your referred to orgabisations and i;ve been referred to mind Remeinds me of the days they'd refer me to day centres then when i didn't...
  7. M

    Calling Myself Names

    Hi, I'm having a really hard time in that sometimes I can't stop from calling myself really awful names. I don't know why I do it, it seems to happen whenever I get stressed. I wish I could stop. Its so embarrassing even if I'm alone. I must have a really broken brain. I wonder if there is any...
  8. J

    Anxiety and bowel problems

    I have trouble with anxiety and needing to rush to the toilet. It happens before I go out ,when I'm out ,if I eat,ifi don't eat .it's embarrassing and taking over my life. Can anyone help?
  9. D

    The embarrassing reason the DWP won't get the sick and disabled back to work

    The embarrassing reason the DWP won't get the sick and disabled back to work The embarrassing reason the DWP won’t get the sick and disabled back to work* | Vox Political Not as trivial as you first might think.
  10. RainbowHeartz


    Sleep sex, or sexsomnia, is a condition in which a person will engage in sexual activities while asleep. This condition falls within the broad class of sleep disorders known as parasomnias above copied and pasted via wiki anyway just researched and well this is what i came up with! highly...
  11. A

    Why am I constantly paranoid?

    I started Prozac almost two months ago and I've noticed that I have been having really weird paranoid tendecies. For example, I can think of something that happened 3 or 4 years ago and I will literally be stressed out for hours. I would think "what if people find out, what if my parents find...
  12. L

    Advice please concentration/listening

    Hi Can anyone offer me some advice please. I'm having problems at work doing menial tasks, for example lately i can't even answer the phone and take a message correctly. I can't concentrate or listen if that makes any sense. It's getting very embarrassing in front of people. Help please!!
  13. S

    Is depression even real??

    New to anything like this* I believe I have suffered from depression for years so I know in my head it's real, I have self harmed since childhood, I've had a few bad episodes but am usually good at hiding it. It feels like I'm just lazy and no motivation etc and feels like everyone has it. It...
  14. HelloGuys123

    How do you overcome embarrassment

    Hi, ladies and gentleman. I find it very hard to overcome and forget about all embarrassing stuff that happened in my life. I'm starting to question myself whether it's normal or not that I can't get out from dwelling in my past embarrassment. I can't help it. No matter how much I try to not...
  15. N

    Fear of monsters keeps me up at night

    That's right, I can't fall asleep at night because I'm afraid of monsters attacking me. And I'm 18 years old, so it's kind of embarrassing. I of course know that monsters don't exist, but my imagination keeps telling me otherwise, and I just can't control my thoughts. I've always slept with a...
  16. GeordieLad

    Recently diagnosed with depression...

    Hi all, I have recently been diagnosed with depression but also have anxiety symptoms :/ anyway, I came upon this just searching for other people to talk too. I can't tell the people I care about, I feel ashamed and having had no job since last November money is becoming a big issue, I didn't...
  17. N

    Taking sick leave REALLY stressful

    Ok, so basically, last year I had about 6 weeks off work during a breakdown. Prior to this I hadn't taken any time off sick (but was relatively new in the job having started six months earlier). I did everything required of me during the 6 weeks - all the appointments with GPs, occy health (occy...
  18. prairiechick

    Questions a hair dresser should not ask...

    ... 1. How is your day going so far? 2. What have you done so far today? 3. What keeps you busy? 4. Do you work? 5. Do you have children? 6. Do you want to have children some day? The real answers are: 1. HORRIBLE. 2. Nothing. 3. Nothing. 4. No. 5. No. 6. I'm too old to have children some day...
  19. katya

    I have a nervous twitch :(

    Sometimes, when I think of something really cringe-worthy, I basically... twitch. I do a sharp intake of breath and my jaw clenches; it's really quick and involuntary. It's so fucking embarrassing. I usually do it when I'm tired, mostly at the end of the day, when I routinely run through all...
  20. M

    fear of driving unfamiliar places

    I feel so silly having this fear. It causes me great anxiety to have to drive to an unknown place. I don't even trust the GPS--it has set me off course before. I absolutely cannot drive on highways. People drive very aggressively here and it panicky me. Yet the reality is I am a very competent...