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  1. H

    Bipolar Ex Cheated, 16 and Struggling with Hypersexuality (help!)

    I’ll try to keep this as short as possible but I’m not sure how that will work out. I was dating a girl who I think has Bipolar II. Although she is diagnosed and has been dealing with the disorder for a while (around 6yrs she says), I don’t think she has a very good support system. In the past...
  2. R

    How´s your" dating" in personal life?

    Ive never had a girlfriend and im in my late 20´s. Sometimes it does bother me hearing my family members kind of in a joking way asking me why i never found a girlfriend. they are aware of my condition, i dont like to play the victim or anything but sometimes i admit i would like a partner that...
  3. T

    Dating someone with BPD

    Hi, I recently starting dating someone with BPD and immediately we connected. We have been on several dates and both of us have spoken of the future. Everything seemed to be going well until today out of the blue he told me he couldn't be in a relationship. Because of his BPD he must be alone...
  4. W

    Everyone patronises me!

    I have aspergers and ADHD, so it's sometimes hard for me to perform tasks other people might find easy, or even talk to other people. I also have dyscalculia, so math is incredibly hard for me to work out, which probably makes me seem dumb whenever I have to handle money or something. So yeah...
  5. neorealism

    Dating with depression

    Hello, I am keen to learn of your experiences of dating whilst being depressed. I would really love to hear the positive and negative spectrum of experiences, what to avoid, what to do, where to look and how to take the first plunge into the world of dating? I've reached a stage in my life...
  6. L

    I want to help my boyfriend with his metal health but don't know how?

    This is a new relationship of a couple months, and it's about to go LDR for a while. We have a fair share of obstacles, and some of you might call me crazy. When we first started dating, his thoughtfulness swept me off my feet. Always does, doesn't it? But he was different. The thoughtful way...
  7. M

    Conflicted on how proceed with an interest. Need advice.

    I have generalized anxiety disorder which at time conflicts with all aspects of my life...including dating. I have dating anxiety wicked to the point where now I over analyze in beginning of dating or even talking. I'm conflicted with texting him and communicating. I have anxiety when I do put...
  8. C

    Dating and Disclosure of MH problems

    Hi all, I've dipped a toe back in the dating world. My question is when do you think it would be appropriate to disclose MH issues. I thought I would disclose I have had MH issues after several dates and if I thought we might have chance of a relationship and certainly before it got sexual. I...
  9. xavierbrown6

    Dating a Girl w/ Depression

    I have been dating this girl with depression for almost 3 months now. Things were and still sort of are going well. Only unsure on the protocol for some things like we used to have sex earlier in the relationship and now we don't. When we did, she basically wanted me to rape her, and I did. Her...
  10. R

    Sex

    I suffer with depression and anxiety and used to have sex quite a lot, but recently I haven't been lucky with sex. I'm getting quite frustrated sexually as I haven't had sex since the end of last year and it's annoying me. I'm fed up of wanking and just want to have some fun and be intimate...
  11. I

    Silence and Dating Someone with Social Anxiety. Please Help Me to Understand

    Silence and Dating Someone with Social Anxiety. Please Help Me to Understand I have been dating a man with anxiety for 6 months. He is loving, funny and intelligent. We have similar interests and loving expressions. Near the beginning of our relationship he expressed doubts about himself. That...
  12. ellieindy

    Dating Advice: Trust Issues

    Hi all, I hope this is okay to post here. I'm not officially diagnosed with BPD so I feel a bit like I'm intruding posting here, but I've done research on the disorder and it resonates with me a lot. I'm also going to start DBT treatment soon, and raise it with my psychiatrist that I think I...
  13. ellieindy

    Dating and finding it hard to trust people

    Hi all, I've recently started seeing this girl (and by recently I mean we had our first date yesterday) and I wonder if anybody has any advice? I'm clueless about dating, as I've only been with one person before and that was a bit of a disaster. I find it hard to trust and like people generally...
  14. freshstart2016

    Dating Advice!

    Hi Guys Thank you for your ongoing support. I don't have much experience when it comes to dating nor relationships. I don't know what to expect. I don't know what to do, say or respond. I am at the early stages of the guy I am seeing. He is older and more experienced than I am. He shows a lot...
  15. Tired Daisy

    Dating a burn victim

    So I kinda feel like I should post this in the "Getting your life back" section as theres nothing wrong with somebody wanting to date a burn victim in hoping that they could both be happy with each other. I kinda feel like an asswhole posting this but fuck hostility I've had enough of it for one...
  16. D

    Finding a partner/Dating when struggling with social anxiety

    Hi everyone, hope this post will be taken seriously: My question is, how have people with social anxiety and GAD managed to find company? I am currently 26 years old, male, never had a girlfriend and never had sex with another person. Loneliness is making me depressed. I have some friends but...
  17. B

    Relationships

    Just interested how others deal with relationships, or lack of. I've decided I need to get back into meeting people, even if it's on a friendship level. I have some close friends but I need something more I think. I've tried dating in the past, but it never lasts long. I feel like I may be...
  18. B

    I keep doing the same damn thing and it's bugging me a lot.

    So I know this is going to sound bloody pathetic, but I am honestly feeling utterly stupid and pathetic anyway right now. I've always found, with issues of self worth and depression/anxiety, that dating and rejection have always been very hard for me to deal with. Im 25 now and didnt even...
  19. X

    I'm really worried about having friends because I worry they'll judge me for not dating and living with my parents. I'm a 37 year old man.

    I'm really worried about having friends because I worry they'll judge me for not dating and living with my parents. I'm a 37 year old man. Any advice for dealing with this topic. Everyone I meet thinks it's weird, so I don't meet people very much. I have had the means to move out, but I just...
  20. R

    Dating.... It's complicated

    Hi all! Not sure if anyone is going to read this but I NEED to get it off my chest. I've been dating a wonderful guy who is in his early twenties for about four months. He's amazing and treats me (and I know this sounds silly but...) Like a queen. Any before we started dating I had heard from...
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