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  1. J

    Please help me

    I don't even know if this is the right forum My trauma isn't as bad as other people's and I've never told anyone what happened. Its been four years and I've not said anything. Its eating away at me every day but i don't know who to tell i dont know how. Will it go away? Is telling a...
  2. Poppy2014

    overcoming self destroying habits

    I have just made a monumental f**k up at work, the sort which could get me sacked. It's going to be reported to higher up and I have to wait and see what they want to do. However in a discussion with my line manager I realised this is a pattern of self destruction that I have repeated over the...
  3. E

    How to Talk to Voices

    This is the process I have followed that has taken me from an abusive situation with voices to one that is supportive. 1. Search - look for voices that have the most potential to talk with. Your natural reaction will be to ignore the hostile voices and look for the least hostile. In my opinion...
  4. C


    Banff and surrounding areas The Arches Anderson House 46 Ardanes Brae Banff AB45 1FG 01261 815449 The Arches supports our community by offering confidential support, information and advice to anyone who experiences mental ill-health. We can help you make friends, overcome distress, meet...
  5. T

    Help and support for teen SH'er

    My daughters friend (13yrs) self harms, her mum is aware and made her promise not to do it any more. A recent traumatic event has had her sh again, and she can't tell her mum as this other thing is upsetting enough and I said to just deal with one thing at a time. Are there confidential support...
  6. H


    Hello, I was wondering. If I were to go to talk to a psychiatrist about the things that concern me, will they tell anyone else? I know that it's supposed to be confidential but I fear that they'd report it to a council worker or something. Freedom
  7. W

    Will P-doc report me ???

    Hello Peeps GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR Not seen the pdoc for a while until today (fri) and i really opened up to her for a change, i told her a lot of Bad things what i done years ago soooo what i want to know is it confidential what i tell her ??i forget if it is or will she tell the police. I didn't...
  8. H

    The issue of consent

    Hi all, Does anyone know the general rule when it comes to 'psychologists' and 'psychotherapists' sharing personal and confidential information between each other? It seems I have had very sensitive and confidential information happily exchanged between these people without my explicit...
  9. pepecat

    Research request: Were you satisfied with your therapy?

    Please note this has been approved by mods / admin Hello everyone, Have you ever had therapy for a personal or mental health problem? (e.g. counselling, CBT, DBT, couples therapy). If so, would you be interested in taking part in the survey I have created for my MSc Clinical Psychology Masters...
  10. PoisonButterfly

    Oh What To Do?

    I will start this with, I do not trust people very much. I only have 2 people I have let get close to me, one is my husband and the other is my BFF. I have an appointment with my doctor in a week or so. I am trying to figure out how to bring out the topic of my many substance abuses and...
  11. R

    Advice needed about drugs and confidentiality

    Hi, Im kinda new to this forums, I dont think this is in the right place so Im really sorry if it belongs somewhere else. Also if this breaks the rules, I will remove it. Would really like some advice about drugs. Ive recently started using illegal drugs to try and escape my life for a few...
  12. D

    should we set up a monthly support evening

    Leeds. Barnsley. Rotherham.sheffield and york doncaster. I would like to meet with other people in our are. All confidential relaxed surroundings. Let me no with any ideas
  13. S

    work application form

    Hi. I have not applied for any jobs since I've been ill but people I know have. It appears to be common to have the health questionnaire in with the main application. Surely this means that everyone interviewing you and all future managers would know of a person's condition? Is this fair? Do you...