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  1. L

    Please...someone?

    I'm 34 years old and suffer from depression and anxiety. I'm married to a man that I love more than anything in this world. But I'm having issues. My marriage is falling apart. I don't trust him...which I have valid reasons to not trust him. He swears up and down that I'm the only one he wants...
  2. M

    Can someone help me?

    Hi everyone, I have had people joke at me that I might have OCD and after researching things that affect my life I think I may truly have it. here is a list of things that I feel relate to my confusion on this... 1. I dont think I have a substance abuse problem... but drink regularly and...
  3. G

    I can't get over it!

    Hello, all. I've come here to just get this off my chest and maybe get some advice. I'm a 31-year-old lady who's married to my one and only love. I've been with this man for 15 years (married for 10). We have three beautiful children. I've never been with another man, nor would I ever want to...
  4. T

    Affected by cheating and drug use some years ago

    Hello everyone. I am new to this forum but have felt like writing something for a long time even if this is anonymous.. its still good to get it out. Basically i started seeing a girl 3 1/2 years ago and at the time she had just broken up with a guy I knew (yes rebound all the signs) .. then...
  5. A

    Paranoid about my boyfriend cheating

    I'm a university student in my 3rd year and have been with my current boyfriend for about 1 and a half years now. We met in 1st year at uni and basically from day one, he liked me. He chased me for about 6-7 months and eventually I decided I wanted a relationship with him. It all went very...
  6. N

    lost and alone

    Hi I'm new here. I have had depression for many years now and find it hard to cope and make friends.My husband of 8 yrs left me after many affairs. Then I met someone who I thought loved me and he turned out to be a cheating rat to.So here I am lonely and lost wondering why me.
  7. A

    Relationship paranoia advice! :(

    Hi there! I've suffered with depression and anxiety all my life, and I've always had a big problem with fear in relationships too. I'm 26, my boyfriend is 22 and we have been together for almost 9 months, so not too long really. What I need right now is for someone to tell me off really. I...
  8. A

    I was directed here, posted in "new members"... Now here?

    Default New, scared... Pretty sure I'm "crazy" Back story: Bad childhood, mother absent (prison, addict), father absent (ditto), grandma raised me til she died, then uncle begrudgingly took over (he's a real NICE guy- not)... Fast forward: 3 failed marriages, 4 children. I am a 28 year old...
  9. A

    New, scared... Pretty sure I'm "crazy"

    Back story: Bad childhood, mother absent (prison, addict), father absent (ditto), grandma raised me til she died, then uncle begrudgingly took over (he's a real NICE guy- not)... Fast forward: 3 failed marriages, 4 children. I am a 28 year old female, and I think my husband is right. I am...
  10. F

    Just hurt myself on purpose due to paranoia and not being able to stand myself

    Just hurt myself on purpose due to paranoia and not being able to stand myself I have become a whole different person. Marrying the love of my life was supposed to make life much more better for him and I. I know I am overreacting and acting crazy and it is destroying my marriage and my...
  11. B

    Husband Thinks I Cheated. Paranoid Personality Disorder. What Can Be Done?

    Husband Thinks I Cheated. Paranoid Personality Disorder. What Can Be Done? Hello everyone, First of all I love my husband and we have a two month old son. Unfortunately he has it in his head that I have cheated on him multiple times. He thinks I cheated before we got married, after...
  12. A

    I have, sadly, relapsed! (Moral Scrupulosity)

    For those out there who care about my background and my original thread and are willing to share some kind words with me, please review my original thread below and note that this post is a long one so please bear with me... http://www.mentalhealthforum.net/forum/thread103610.html So as the...
  13. Gajolene

    12 Toxic Behaviors That Push People Away From You

    12 Toxic Behaviors That Push People Away From You | The twelve most common toxic behaviors we see are: Being envious of everyone else. – Don’t let envy (or jealously) get the best of you. Envy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. There is nothing attractive or...
  14. GingerBeard

    I dont know what to do.

    So im back in London and away from my Fiancee atm and she is accusing me of cheating on her and flirting with people out of nowhere. I havent even done anything wrong and never would but the voices in my head are so strong right now trying to make me harm myself.. what am i meant to do i cant...
  15. C

    I dont want to ruin my current relationship i need help.

    Hey guys I'm new to this so i hope you can help me. I'm in a relation that is almost 10 months along and ive never been happier in a relationship. To the point i think hes the one i can spend the rest of my life with. but because of my past experiences i have severe anxiety and paranoia that hes...
  16. R

    im losing my mind I'm going crazy

    I can write enough stuff on here to keep someone seriously entertained so I'll try to cut to the chase.. My marriage is in shambles.. My wife hates me.. I can't blame her for it I mean I am as she calls me a nutcase.. I have extreme anger issues that I can't seem to control that go back to when...
  17. D

    I have lost the will to continue

    Where do i start ? I joined this forum a long time ago and posted just once for help on how to deal with my partner who had post natal depression... Well ive certainly learned in the past year how she felt, maybe it has been longer than a year because dealing with her feelings did make me feel...
  18. D

    where do i begin

    Started seeing this guy who had an ex he was still friendly with even after they split three years ago, heres my problem. She had visited him a couple of times at the beginning of our relationship as he said they where just friends. anyway he would mention her name sometimes and i asked if he...
  19. M

    Trouble dealing with Paranoia

    Been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years. We fight a lot sometimes things get awkward, she's been acting more distant from me becoming less affectionate but this has happened throughout the years. It's off and on, any who I keep thinking that's she's been lying to me and possibly cheating on...
  20. V

    Hello

    Hi so Im a new member Im a young 18 year old and I basically joined because Ive been looking for years to speak to someone. I can't talk to my friends or boyfriend, Im scared they'll think.. well that I'm crazy to put it bluntly or that I'm just looking for attention, I can't bring myself to...
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