cheating

  1. J

    Tried an Open Relationship - Now it's Destroying Me.

    I have an interesting one... A couple years ago after many discussions I decided to allow my boyfriend to have sex with another women. The rules were it couldn't be anyone either of us knew and it could only be sex, nothing emotional, no relationships, etc. just sex. I feel men are more than...
  2. D

    Alot went down last Friday night... Please help

    Hello all... I have been through a lot in the past couple of months. I know I need help, but I am not sure how to start. I will try to explain my situation (as brief as I can). I know I need therapy, but I wanted to write my thoughts down and share with someone, so I can maybe relive a tiny bit...
  3. R

    The Pain of Infidelity & the Depression it Causes

    Six weeks ago I decided to call my ex, or my girlfriend at the time, and, when she responded, I heard her whimpering and grunting in a very slow way; I knew what was happening. What happened subsequently, I don't remember exactly.. although I do remember falling on the floor and crying to the...
  4. tragicpink

    cheating fantasy

    i dont think i want advice, i think i just need to be heard and related to. first of all, i love my boyfriend with my entire heart and would never do anything to jeopardise our relationship. period. but i really really love attention. especially when it's from people who want me sexually and/or...
  5. C

    Ex BPD PARTNER - help and advice please?

    Spent a confusing, bewildering, traumatic, emotionally damaging 18mths with undiagnosed high functioning BPD male partner. both his teenage daughters have depression and his he/his mother have a troubled Mother Complex type relationship - his dad abandoned them at birth - where she is...
  6. H

    Coping with impulsiveness and risk taking

    Hello everyone, this is my first post here. Bit of background, if this helps. I'm a 28 y.o. gay male with BPD and GAD and I'm currently finding it very hard to deal with the risk taking aspects of BPD. I just got out of a long period of depression and numbness, which led me towards seeking...
  7. M

    Cheated and now obsessed with the guy

    I don't get drunk often. But when my boyfriend went on a vacation with his friends, i bought a bottle of wine and drank it completely empty. I am 26 and i have a history of drinking and taking medicine, all was going really well and i was focused on my studies before that one fateful night. I...
  8. L

    Accusing my Boyfriend of cheating

    So I have had this problem for a long time. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years and he is the love of my life. Before we got together I left an ex boyfriend to be with him after being treated horribly, being cheated on by him and having him tell me he was still in love...
  9. O

    Living with a partner with Severe depression and Anxiety - PLEASE HELP!

    Living with a partner with Severe depression and Anxiety - PLEASE HELP! Hi guys, this is my first time posting to a forum so forgive me if I ramble on a bit... there is a lot to cover and a lot that has happened. I have been with my partner for 2 years, we recently got engaged. I love him...
  10. M

    Anxiety disorder and now dealing with a cheating partner

    I've never posted in something like this before so I hope I do it right. I just need some help. I have suffered with anxiety and panic disorder for years and have been on medication and through counselling for those topics but also sudden bereavement and grief. I find this latest topic so hard...
  11. K

    Paranoia

    So I have bpd and all my relationships have been terrible violence cheating. Where's this time I have been with my husband around 7 years he's not like that but!!! I keep convincing myself he's cheating Now is this me being paranoid or is he is all I think I just can't seem to stop thinking it...
  12. O

    Bipolar disorder

    My wife is always hearing voices and they talk bad about me and some times her they lie to her and she believes them over me and the kids and she's lost one kid all together and I am trying to make it were she don't lose us to .please help ..she hears allot of voices thru sound waves and other...
  13. Z

    I'm a piece of garbage and ruined my life

    I had a great relationship with a guy I loved so much and wanted to marry. He was a great boyfriend and loved me even though I knew I never deserved him. We were together for 3 years. I fucked up and cheated on him once with another guy I had a crush on. It was an impulse decision and I regret...
  14. I

    feel so alone heathroken

    So after loosing my bf I feel so alone every weernf I'm.alone and work i can't stop thinking about my bf I loved him was so happy what he said was really hurtful and maybe he was cheating I just want to end my stupid life :-(I can't cope with losing him
  15. E

    Relationship Trauma - Dealing with Extreme Projection

    Hi My story is complicated so I will try and keep it as high level as possible. I've been married to my wife for a good 4 years. It was a solid, wholesome relationship filled with love, dreams and hope. She did confide to me in the beginning that she had experienced sexual abuse as a child by...
  16. S

    How to forgive

    I have a pretty low self esteem and very low confidence and I have been like this for about 8-10 years. It holds me back a lot. I also have a history of depression. Like lately my boyfriend has been wanting to go out to the pool but I just cannot talk myself into it while people are there but I...
  17. S

    What a scumbag!

    I found out that my boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend) has been actively seeking other women on a dating site. I had my supiscions for a while as things didn't seem right, so I decided to do some investigating and found a live profile on a dating site. I confronted him, he made a lame excuse saying...
  18. K

    What do i do? Please help...

    Hi, i have never tried this, but im whiling to try anything. To start, hi im kyle im 20 years old. When i was 16, I met the girl of my dreams, everyday for 2 years we hung out there was maybe 2 days in those 2 years we didnt hang out (until the last 2 months when i started working). We were the...
  19. T

    Delusions centered on my friends

    Hello, good day to everyone. I think I am suffering from schizophrenia, psychosis, delusion disorder and DPDR. About my friends,I'll give a brief account of myself. I was always a loner, and I still am. I never had too many friends. In high school, all except three of my friends were distant...
  20. TheVoices-hehears

    Hello!!!

    So I signed up for this site because I need help with my fiancé, he is hearing voices and I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like maybe I'm not good enough for him, like maybe somehow I'm doing this to him, we haven't seen a doctor yet but will in a couple weeks. If I could just hear from...