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  1. midnightphoenix


    My heart just broke even more if that's even possible for a broke heart to break even more :sorry: I got in from work and Willow had got hold of a bit of rubbish from the bin and she decided to "guard" it like poor sweetpea Ebony used to :sorry: Ebony would grab rubbish then imitate Gollum from...
  2. I

    ... Losing battle

    I don't want to go into too much detail, but I found the love of my life two years ago when my dad died, and she saved me from depression, my dad been dead is not a issue for me any more at all, both me and my girl are intense people with a inane amount of honesty, we are long distance and been...
  3. R

    Telling School Counselor Soon

    Things have gotten incredibly bad for me. Friday night I hurt myself for the first time.. Then Saturday morning my boyfriend broke up with me suddenly, he kind of lied, broke a lot of promises, etc. And Saturday as well I believe my best friend blocked me and I don’t know why cause we haven’t...
  4. T

    New to Forum! Recovering From PTSD

    Hi guys... so to give you some insight into my story, when I was 14 years old I started dating a guy who I would continue to date for the next 5 years. As the classic story line would go, he started out very sweet, but within time he became incredibly abusive and manipulative. He was mentally...
  5. A

    New on here

    Hi guys, I've been suffering with anxiety for the last year and probably even depression over the last 6 months. All new to me and its a bit scary at times. Have done counselling but just find I'm broke after it which doesn't add to me anxiety! Anyways, came on here with the hopes of chatting...
  6. W

    Can I claim PIP for BPD?

    I've just been diagnosed with BPD. I already have ADHD 1&2. Does anyone know it I could (should) apply for pip. As I'm broke, unemployed and really struggling.
  7. B

    Manipulative ex?

    Hi All My boyfriend broke up with me mid July. He said it was because of his mental health problems. We were about to move in together and he got cold feet. I took it off the table and said it was fine, we didn’t have to do it. He seemed to spiral to the point where he could hardly talk to me...
  8. R

    Ridiculous question - what is normal in a depressed partner?

    Hi, Apologies if I'm posting in the wrong place. I am totally new to this community. I don't believe I suffer with depression, though I recognise significant fluctuations in my mental health over the years, but I have been in an on/off relationship with someone suffering from clinical...
  9. J

    Last Item You Broke

    The last thing I broke was my headboard for bed early this morning while moving around not sleeping feeling down. The wood snapped when I leaned back and it fell to the floor. I am going to find it harder to sleep now.
  10. M

    Just feel pointless

    I don't value life anymore. I am so sad and depressed everyday. I'm 18 and just finished education. I broke up with my girlfriend recently. She was the world to me. She made me happy and we were in love. We met when we were both 16 and thought we would spend the rest of our lives together...
  11. crazypants

    Not sure where to go from here.

    Hi, I am new to the site. I was diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety about six years ago and I was doing pretty good the last few years until my boyfriend of two years and I broke up 2 months ago. He cheated on me and he ended up being the one to break up with me over text after two...
  12. S

    friend suffering from anxiety, please please tell me what to do

    I apologize in advance for long text. My best friend whom i've also dated in the past suffers from anxiety disorder but now he is truly convinced that he is magically CURED, refuses to take his medications, and the problem is that I have developed serious romantic emotions for him again. I have...
  13. O

    Think it’s all coming unraveled ?

    Ok so you guys may have seen my other post. Got home from work today shit is just weird. Went to the bedroom to go into the bathroom. Doorknob to bathroom was broke off. She said sorry she accidentally broke it. Then I went to get in tub I noticed the book I was reading called the game( with...
  14. Q

    Living with 10 years of harassment abuse and violations

    Hello Beautiful People. I'll make this brief.x I was Raped by my ex boyfriend. He found out that I had spoken to the police about it but I did not follow through with pressing charges. I trusted the wrong people who subsequently reported this back to him. The following then happened to me...
  15. M

    Just got diagnosed...help me

    Hello everyone! I am very nervous, as this is the first time I post something here. Ever since I can remember, I've always felt...odd. I chose to ignore it, some people labeled me as arrogant/shy/weird/moody and so on. I have a history of disastrous romantic relationships and broken...
  16. B

    Bipolar girlfriend broke up with me randomly and had sex with someone the night after

    Bipolar girlfriend broke up with me randomly and had sex with someone the night after Me and my girlfriend had been having problems lately. We had been together for 2 years and something. I also wanna day we are long distance and we are both bisexual girls. She never cheated on me technically...
  17. C

    How Old?

    Hello, i hope this is ok. My partner was diagnosed with schizophrenia only 1 year and 6 months ago. He was an unusual case as he was 43 when he was diagnosed, after a very long stay in hospital, almost 6 months.He has a degree in engirneering, been in the merchant navy and traveled the world...
  18. valleygirl

    To Someone I Used to Respect and Admire

    You totally fucked with me, man. I admired you, respected you, looked up to you. But you, as a priest, spent 5 years deceiving me about who you are. You were so kind and compassionate and caring. You were like a dad to me. But for 5 years or more you were pretending to be someone you...
  19. Yoshigirl97

    Is My Ex Manic?

    Okay. I dated a man for a little over a year. I knew going in he was Bipolar, and some other conditions mixed in. He was very gentle, kind, and honest. Sure he wasn't perfect but who is? One of the issues we had a long the way was his toxic mother. She was jealous of the relationship we had and...
  20. D

    can serquel xr help with my thoughts

    Hi I had a good friend about two years ago ,this is when i was happy and did not need 6 different medications and now we broke up and no longer friends we broke up last October and every-time i see him i get this sad feelings and thoughts that we wish we could be friends again but i know that...