bpd

  1. P

    BPD and this weeks issues

    First time I have joined this and thought it would be useful toshare my woriies of this week. I have had BPD for the past 6 years and has cost me my marriage. My soon to be ex wife is amazing, she is my guardian angel, we have a friendship that is unique and so special to me, most people do not...
  2. C

    Bpd jealousy

    I feel like recently jealousy is eating me up, I hate my boyfriend doing anything without me, we have been together 5years. when he goes to work I will sit and cry, the thought of him being around other females at work drives me insane I find myself looking them up on social media every day and...
  3. T

    Emotional abuse towards bpd

    I work daily on myself n retraining my frontal brain... My S.O. does not.. He can he mean and emotionally controlling to the point of abuse. Its frustersting that all the info out there on BPD makes us the abuser.. Like no one cld possobly manipulate or use our disorder to gaslight and...
  4. Lottielove89

    Looking to make friends with bpd

    Hi, I’m new here. My whole life I’ve felt alone, like home isn’t really home for me. I was diagnosed with bpd a few years ago along with suffering with anxiety, depression and ocd since 11 years old. I’m now 29 and am bored of feeling alone, I have people, family, but no one really gets me...
  5. H

    Hi I’m new

    Hi I’m harp, I’m new to this site and hoping to talk to and meet people. There’s no body in person I feel like I can talk to about all my diagnosis. I’ve been diagnosed with borderline personality, major depression, generalized anxiety and adhd. I really just want to be able to go to somebody...
  6. H

    Relationship

    I met this guy in January and automatically I got attached, he told me all the right things and he treated me in a way that I was longing for. He made me feel protected and safe. I felt like he could put up with my craziness and mood swings and all the other issues I had. I’ve been diagnosed...
  7. G

    bpd relationship problems

    i am in a loving and healthy relationship which i would not trade for the world. my boyfriend and i love each other but lately we’ve been encountering some problems. he’s been insecure/upset and he had told one of my friends that he loves me, but not as much as i love him. i experience emotions...
  8. S

    Wife with BPD

    Hello. I hope everyone is ok. I'm looking for some help and advice on how to manage with my wife who suffers with BPD. During our 5 year relationship we have been through our fair share of ups and downs. My wife had a very troubled upbringing, and has suffered with the classic BPD symptoms...
  9. N

    I think I got misdiagnosed

    I have recently visited a psychiatrist, since my problems got out of control. I have been experiencing extreme mood swings, extreme emotions, confusion about myself and feelings towards others and similar things for as long as I can remember. My mom, however, would always tell me that I was okay...
  10. Lostinthestatic

    Does music help you?

    The depression makes me lose interest in everything, but recently I’ve been getting into metal. I used to really love that kind of music when I was younger and allowed myself to be angry, but I think I tried to suppress that part of me and now it’s spilling out again. I’ve been listening to...
  11. F

    How to help my boyfriend with BPD feel loved?

    Hey! First time poster here, so sorry if the formatting is weird or I’m not doing a kind of forum-tradition. To start off, I do not have BPD, my boyfriend does. I love him very, very much, and want him to be aware of this. However, he struggles to believe it, and we are both searching for a way...
  12. Lostinthestatic

    My diagnosis, finally

    Yesterday I saw a psychiatrist for the first time and I was given Zoloft 50mg. I was told to take only half a pill for a week to see if I experience any negative side effects, then I can up it if I’m okay. Today I saw my therapist again and we have begun a treatment plan that is DBT based. My...
  13. N

    Holding down a job issues

    Does anyone have issues being able to hold down a job? For example, ill be doing really well and enjoying the job when i first start then after 3 days or so, something goes slightly wrong or i have a slight disagreement with someone and then I tumble in a deep depression and isolate myself...
  14. J

    Looking for help/advice

    Hi all, if you have a minute to read and help, I would be extremely grateful. My sister has severe BPD (she has had this for several years now) and is also pregnant. She refuses any kind of help from her family or friends and instead tells spreads horrible lies about the people who love her...
  15. E

    My relationships with people

    Hello, my name is Emily and I am from England. I haven't been diagnosed with BPD but I fit all the criteria. I can relate to the symptoms so much so that ever since I found out about them it felt as though a missing puzzle piece had been slotted in place. I will quickly summarise my symptoms...
  16. Lostinthestatic

    How to start a routine?

    I am unemployed, not going to school, and I don’t have many people I’m close to. I’ve been in a pretty deep depression for the last 2 or 3 months, and I have nothing of motivation. Just a deep emptiness. Part of this is BPD traits, lacking a sense of identity and not knowing my place in the...
  17. Lostinthestatic

    How mild can hypomania be?

    TLDR: I believe I may have experienced hypomania but find it difficult to tell it apart from just feeling happy, or having BPD symptoms. How mild can hypomania be? What is it like to have both BPD and bipolar II? My therapist is considering bipolar disorder as well as borderline personality...
  18. dLimp

    I don't know

    Hello I feel really hopeless. I have bpd and social phobia and major depressive. I'm 21 and I haven't made any progress in at least 5 years despite trying different treatments. It's only gotten worse. I wasn't able to finish high school because I had so much anxiety. Right now my social life...
  19. Lostinthestatic

    What does “R/O” and “HCC” mean?

    My therapist today indicated that I showed clear signs of BPD. I am waiting on a psychiatric assessment, so I do not have a clear diagnosis as of yet. She is still also considering if it may be a mood disorder. I saw R/O Borderline Personality Disorder HCC in my file, which I assume is a...
  20. dLimp

    Hello!

    Hi! I have borderline personality disorder and social anxiety disorder. I really want to talk with people. I feel that the people i know don't understand me and it's hard to talk to them. I want to become a part of this community. I'm looking forward to talking with you.