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borderline personality

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    I am in a really bad place, my BPD has taken control over me (at least that’s how it feels lately). I feel very alone in this and joined because I need to talk to people who relate to my struggles and can possibly offer advice. Thank you
  2. T

    In need of some advice! Urgently!

    Hello! I’m writing in here because I’m strongly needing some advice and support for myself and my loved one in a current situation. I’ve been with my partner (currently ex partner) for almost 2 years. We live together, the relationship has been absolutely perfect, we rarely argued, we...
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    Do I have BPD?

    I’m 24 and I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety at 18. I took Sertraline for years but finally realized the pills did not help me and was put on Prozac. That has improved things a little but it’s like there are big gaps that aren’t being filled. I recently thought that I may also suffer...
  4. Screechout

    Not sure what to do anymore

    I've been super low recently to the point I've come very close to attempting to take my own life again. I'm also finding it very hard to deal with what I feel is rejection from others, I have constant fear that everyone is leaving me all the time whether it be the people in the mental health...
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    How do I help my friend who has BPD?

    Hi everyone! I have come here hoping that someone who knows what it is like to have BPD could give me a piece of advice on how to help a close friend with BPD. Long story short: My friend and I have known each other for 20 years - she was diagnosed with BPD ten years ago and has been in and...
  6. K

    BPD and making friends

    Hey I'm Kyler. I have BPD was diagnosed when I was 18. I take 5 tabelts a day to function, I depend on these tablets, if I miss them I am so I'll and cannot wake up for ages, cold sweats in bed it's horrible. My mental health has been really bad for about a year now. when I got signed off from...
  7. Screechout

    New here (struggling with 2019 already)

    Hello so I've just signed up after a while of looking at this forum, thought i'd sign up myself. A bit of a backstory of myself I was diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder in the summer last year after several hospital admissions, I'm currently under a mental health team but...
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    Struggling to care for BPD

    I'm new here so not sure how to start off. My wife suffers from BPD and over the past couple of years we've had some lows...but also some highs. I want to help her more when she has an episode but it seems like I may be making it worse. When my wife lashes out verbally I can't help but take it...
  9. Emerald23

    Hello all, Happy New Year and Struggling!

    Hi everyone, I have joined the forum just now. I'm rather tired, but glad I can chat on here tomorrow. I have recently been diagnosed with BPD. I am not coping with the mood swings and depression. Any initial replies would be most welcome.
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    New to Forum Bpd, anxiety, depression and panic sufferer

    Hi. Just introducing myself.I'm 42 and after years of suffering from the age of 4 with the above have been diagnosed with Bpd from childhood trauma. Have joined to chat, get and offer help and advice with mental health. Have been meaning to for a while and after a pretty miserable Xmas...
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    New to forum, but not Mental Health

    Hello , I won't disclose my real name here, but a few of my friends call me Missa. I'm nearly in my 40s and have struggled with mental health since I was a very young girl. I have several diagnosis, including Borderline Personality Disorder, Bipolar II, PTSD, depression. I used to have a severe...
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    Leave a message for someone who is struggling

    This thread is for positive reinforcement. Add a random message of encouragement. Not to anyone specific, just strength when you have it. There will be times that you don’t.
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    Helping My Children

    My ex wife has BPD. At least this is my non-professional diagnosis after many years of a confusing marriage. It was the main cause of our marriage failing. I moved out a few years ago and our relationship is much better now. I'm no longer compelled to put up with her moods or try to fix things...
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    College student just trying to make it

    Hello! I'm a college student that's been suffering from anxiety and depression for about 3 years now. I no longer take med nor see a therapist for these issues because frankly, they did more harm that good for me. The main reason I'm here is because I've recently been diagnosed with Borderline...
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    Hi I am seeking advice on how I help my daughter I think she has PBD but I am struggling to get it diagnosed and therefore supported. I am desperate
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    Bpd traits

    Hello, I am new here. I have suffered from mental health issues for as long as I can remember, suffered a complete breakdown 13 years ago but recovered from it slowly. 2 years ago I have been told that I have bpd traits and I mostly suffer from intense rejection, real or imagined which gives me...
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    I'm not sure what's going on with me

    Hello everyone, At first I want to apologize about my english, it's not my native language, but I hope that you will understand my question. So.. My new psychiatrist told me that I have "some kind of personality disorder". Actually, in the mental hospital where I was admitted for a short...
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    BPD & Weight Gain from Meds

    Hi, so I’m Mel, 19 and recently been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. I’ve been started on an anti-psychotic called Quetiapine (Seroquel) and I’ve heard it makes you gain a lot of weight. Now I’m not the slimmest and I’m currently in the process of losing weight and DO NOT want to...
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    Ex BPD PARTNER - help and advice please?

    Spent a confusing, bewildering, traumatic, emotionally damaging 18mths with undiagnosed high functioning BPD male partner. both his teenage daughters have depression and his he/his mother have a troubled Mother Complex type relationship - his dad abandoned them at birth - where she is...
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    Is there anyone on here been medicated with anything to help ease off bpd effects? I've been told it's not possible, but I feel like I need something to help me. Any advice??