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borderline personality disorder

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    Urgent help please I’m having a breakdown

    I found out that my psychiatric nurse of 3 years lied to his manager and told her that I made suggestive comments to him when I didn’t. We weren’t allowed to see each other anymore because of this eventhough he made subtle hints and flirtatious remarks that he had feelings for me - not the other...
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    What does he mean?

    I was chatting to my best mate and he was putting himself up quite a bit And I said for a joke “you compliment yourself a lot” Then he replied “I have to because who else would?”
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    To Be or Not To Be

    I went to the doctor for the first time in months, as I realized I probably should go back on medication before I completely lose it. I just went to my regular family doctor, as I had seen the other doctor on-site give my friend antidepressants. We had never discussed my mental health or what I...
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    Can someone help me out quickly please? What does this mean? I’m very upset.

    This is about my psychiatric nurse... This was ages ago. I told him that I was uncomfortable by his remarks e.g “you’re attractive” and “what’s not to like about you?” and firstly, he acknowledged it and he claimed he wouldn’t mention it again. Weeks later, I saw him again and he said “I was...
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    RE: I am in love with my psychiatric nurse

    In reference to a previous post I made a few weeks prior, I would like to add a few more words. If you haven’t already seen it then I advise you to take a look to ensure clarity and to save confusion. I had an appointment this Monday regarding the complaint I made about my psychiatric nurse. It...
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    Hearing someone after my mom passed away

    After my mom passed away, I started feeling my bed rock. As if somebody was kicking it. 2 nights later, I was lying down and I heard “no” repetitively. It was a distant muffled high pitched males voice (presumably) and it was ceaseless. It stopped after 10 minutes. I was walking around the room...
  7. GlitterAndTwisted


    So I’m a bit new to all this and somewhat nervous about it all haha. But how many people are medicated for their BPD, how long did it take you to find the right medication for you and what is that you take please? I feel the older I’m getting, the more likely it is that I can’t be medicated...
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    I am in love with my psychiatric nurse & he also had feelings... HELP?!

    Hello, I just turned 19 years old and my psychiatric nurse is 54. his name is nick and I will call him that just to save confusion. My contact was cut off with him due to the fact I made a complaint about his behaviour. it was unprofessional and my father also picked up on this. I have known...
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    Break Up and Moving Back Home

    Hi guys, A little update on what's been going on with me in the last few days. Me and my partner have ended our relationship, it wasn't anyone's fault but things happen sometimes. He couldn't cope anymore with my mental health because he didn't understand but he tried his best. I also...
  10. KTCarrott

    Effects of stopping drinking alcohol.

    Hey! I new to this forum, and also new to the BPD diagnosis. I have stopped drinking alcohol, it has been around 5 months now, as I found it made me very vulnerable, to making very bad and self destructive decisions, including promiscuity, and self harm, and just putting myself in general...
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    bpd relationship problems

    i am in a loving and healthy relationship which i would not trade for the world. my boyfriend and i love each other but lately we’ve been encountering some problems. he’s been insecure/upset and he had told one of my friends that he loves me, but not as much as i love him. i experience emotions...
  12. Lostinthestatic

    How mild can hypomania be?

    TLDR: I believe I may have experienced hypomania but find it difficult to tell it apart from just feeling happy, or having BPD symptoms. How mild can hypomania be? What is it like to have both BPD and bipolar II? My therapist is considering bipolar disorder as well as borderline personality...
  13. Lostinthestatic

    What does “R/O” and “HCC” mean?

    My therapist today indicated that I showed clear signs of BPD. I am waiting on a psychiatric assessment, so I do not have a clear diagnosis as of yet. She is still also considering if it may be a mood disorder. I saw R/O Borderline Personality Disorder HCC in my file, which I assume is a...
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    My Denial Self..

    I've been thinking for a very long time to write, but I didn't know how to start or where. I looked up on google and I found myself here. My writing will be more like a kid explaining his story, so my apologies about that. Lets just start from the end, I am a 26 yrs old girl that has been...
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    what is DBT and how does it help ?

    I'm on a list for it, all I know is that there is 1-1 therapy and group therapy involved which I'm dreading and what other therapies besides CBT and DBT are there that can help with BPD ?
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    My teacher was my FP. How do I move on?

    I had a teacher in high school who I got attached to. She allowed me to be in her class all 4 years. I've literally never even had a friendship last that long. No one in my life has ever acted as caring as she was toward me, and so I started seeing her as a mother figure. I frequently feared...
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    Dating/Relationship Advice?

    I'm kind of at my wits' end with this issue. I recently was able to graduate college, am working full-time, and am applying to go to medical school. I'm doing much better than any doc predicted when I first got the BPD diagnosis, but it's pretty much only because I wasn't in a relationship or...