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anger issues

  1. frisas45

    I hate physical fights, but my fury is driving me to it.

    My words are not true; this didn't happen to me. It's scenario based on what I fear. I hate people who is verbally abusing me. Sometimes, I want to cuss back. If I do, they get calm and sarcastic. No matter what I do, they just win the battle. Even if I get polite, they just brush me off as...
  2. S

    Meds & anger issues

    Hello there, just looking for advice on meds as nothing seems to be working for me. I’ve been depressed since I was 17 but could always cope, distract myself or snap out of it. Last year Jan 2018 I finally gave in & saw the dr, was put on Mirtazapine but that meant I couldn’t sleep. Setraline...
  3. L

    Mood Swings

    My mood swings are absolutely horrendous. I don't know how to control them properly. I always feel like I'm going crazy. My mom says that I'm a drama queen, and my sister treats me like I'm an idiot. I feel so unheard and misunderstood. I don't know what to do about it anymore. I need to go back...
  4. A

    I need anger managment advice! Please.

    Hello, so... I wasn't sure where to ask this so 'other condition and experiences' will have to do. I need help with anger management, in relation to the fact that I have the first of several classes tonight! And I feel absolutely stupid for going. Absolutely stupid. Like when I think of anger...
  5. Y

    my dad talks to himself and i dont know what to do about it

    my dad talks to himself literally every day and he is always angry, the smallest thing will make him snap and its really scary. It is no way to live your life and i know he has some intense problems but the way he is, i know he will never seek out help or talk about it. my relationship with him...
  6. B

    Violent fantasies - not sure where to post

    Hi, I am new here. For a while I've struggled with violent thoughts. Being around people, I often want to break things or hurt people. I've had strong thoughts and feelings of wanting to intimidate and even kill others. You know the film Kingsman? Well, the part where everyone starts attacking...
  7. N

    Still stuck in a dark place

    So I was really low the other day and felt like taking risks. I wrote about it in a thread, which helped a bit. But now I'm here again. Thing is, I've been away from school for a while due to health issues, and now that I've returned, I can't help but feel overwhelmed. There's just too much...
  8. W

    Feeling like I want to hurt people, and it's not good.

    Before, I would have really graphic thoughts about hurting myself and doing very awful things. I really hate myself, for many reason which I will not explain right now, but I had these thoughts frequently. Now I'm starting to have thoughts about hurting other people, which I would never act...
  9. N

    Beginning depression?

    I'm worried that I might be on the verge of some sort of depression, and I need to let out my feelings and maybe have someone listen to me. So here goes: More and more I feel incredibly low and demotivated, unable to do anything I like doing or that requires an effort. And I've found myself...
  10. C


    well, I've been looking for something like this for a while and I'm hoping this works.
  11. L

    Am I normal?

    I really don't know how to put this into words so this will probably end up rather scattered but I'll do my best. I kind of have to explain before I get to my actual question so please bear with me. I feel like I have different versions of myself, sort of like alters but they all go by the...
  12. T

    Should I Seek Help?

    I have always had problems with feeling sad/worthless/angry. I was treated for anxiety about 6 years ago, prescribed Xanax, but being a dumb teenager, I got addicted and abused them so I stopped taking them. When I first started taking them though, it seemed like everything was great. They made...
  13. S

    after suffering in silence for 16 years... i think i have BPD?

    i'm 32 with four children 3 unplanned but i do love them. i as many had a difficult childhood. my mother suffers from mental health problems and was devoid of emotion my dad whom i discovered was actually my step dad when i was 17 (explained why he hateted me and loved my little sis) was violent...
  14. L

    Mood swings and giving myself a hard time

    Every day I have mood swings the reason why I have decided to put this in anxiety is I guess it is a form of anxiety. For instance last night I was in a good (?) mood and decided to get organic milk and to send a holiday brochure request to Rosemary Conley co. This morning I wake up and I am...
  15. P

    Self Harming

    I dont want to make this a big thing but I feel as though I got no where to turn to. Ive started self harming to release anger or stress. Its started a few years ago when I wpuld do it once a month but like today ive dobe it really bad. This morning, as my anger and stress is mostly directed at...