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adoption

  1. nomask

    Adopted, planning to meet my bio family. Scared of how they'll react to my past.

    I'm unsure if this is the right place to put this, please let me know if it isn't. Trigger warning for abuse. I was given up for adoption after being born and only allowed to meet my biological family when I turned 18 years old. Essentially, the moment I've been born my life has been...
  2. R

    Is it possible to love a parent but resent them as well?

    I love my adoptedive mother. However, her behaviour towards me and others is sometimes disturbing, crude, unsympathetic etc.(Do not want to list more). I respect her as a mother but as an individual it becomes a bit complicated. She has this Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde persona. I acknowledge that I...
  3. amathus

    Life-changes which may affect GAD...

    Some Origins of Anxiety Anxiety and feelings of stress are symptoms, a response to pressure, the more intolerable or persistent the pressure, the worse the anxiety. And this does not necessarily mean a single, overwhelming difficulty. More often it is an accumulation of things. This...
  4. H

    The Baby.

    I've shied away from talking about this for some time because it's really eating away at me, but I've come to see this forum as a friendly and somewhat impartial place so I feel comfortable sharing this here. About 8 months ago, my ex-girlfriend became pregnant. She promised me she was taking...
  5. Lincoln1990

    Please read

    I miss everyone who I used to talk to on here. But everyone has left or stopped talking to me. I've cut my friends list by a lot because I didn't feel comfortable with everyone having access to everything. I know I said I was not going to post again but I'm not going to sleep (I have a show to...
  6. M

    afternoon

    how is everyone in here doimg? weathers crappy hear i the southeast. roll on summer ey. im exstreamly 'numb' daily atm and not liking it tbh. but when i do feel i just at that point wish i was numb again. im considering going onto the lithuim injection but was woundering how others have...
  7. M

    grief

    ok so my so called 'grief' is diffrent maby i should not be posting in this section i dunno what catogorie 'grief' come's under hear.. but if you loss someone a 'child' through adoption not of your choice when the fuck dose the 'NUMBNESS' piss off? when do the thought's lessen guity and all the...
  8. K

    i am sick of vivid dreams

    i cant sleep the last two nights iv been having awfull dreams,well the 14Th of this months marks something,and it keeps coming into my dream,i keep hearing my daughter crying calling out mummy,but she cant hear me no matter how loud im screaming back :( i lots my two children to forced adoption...
  9. bullybeef

    Is adoption and BPD linked?

    Hi' I am an adoptee and was brought up in a sterile, unloving family. My mother was very narcissistic and I think apart from the trauma of separation from my birth mother at 7 mths and a year in banados my early childhood was "normal" . I believe the trouble started when I first attended school...
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