bipolar and promiscuity
Am sure this has been covered... But entertain me.
I always thought I was just a horny girl, but am becoming more aware that when im in the thick of an episode my sexual peek reaches new levels. Putting myself in dangerous situations which I wouldn't normally entertain and would ruin my life if I got caught, which is part of the thrill.
This has always been a big part of my mania.
no it's not just you... back in the days of my big mania somehow i attracted other bipolars in their mania from the uni (one triggered the other and we all got higher and higher of each other) and some crazy sexual behaviour went down, we could easily be arrested for doing things publicly...
just try to control your hypo/mania with medication, don't drink much and try to stay out of trouble, having said that i'm a shot away banging a waitress behind some bushes if a get the chance
good to have you back funky, bringing a bit of naughty naughty, I jest as its maybe not funny. NO its not just you hun its a well documented theory that a side of bi-polar can be the hyper-sexuality, and for all the jokes aside its not funny or particularly enjoyable (!!?) Or if well managed perhaps it can be.
But if people like and want to go a shagging just because of a condition or 'illness' (hate that word, illness), then if it has nothing to do with who, where, or, when they are going to do it with. And if individuals are placing themselves in dangerous situations then that is worrying and not a good sign surely. Some people like that side of stuff though, so who am I to say anything.
If its safe sex and got some hindsight then if people want to go for it the go for it, however, on a much more serious note, I do think that this overt sexuality thing, it is a 'dark' side of bi-polarity that can get over looked and hidden as people wont regard it as an issue. It is as a much overlooked and not treated side of the bi-polar conditon that can have damaging ramifcations for people.:cry2:
Hark at katss to bring about some joy and sunshine eh? No you are not alone babe, but its a serious issue that needs to be talked about and that stigma removed somehow?:innocent:
My view funky is fantasy is fine. I am certain most men and a great majority of women feel attractions to others outside their own relationship even if it is a very solid supportive and very loving. I think nearly everyone if they are honest with themselves would admit to this.
Although definitely can relate these feelings can become very exaggerated during periods of mania. Do what you have to do to quell these urges if you are currently struggling a great deal atm. Sounds like you haven't actually acted out in any sort of damaging way to your relationship so all well and good funky.
You would be surprised funky. The ole ladette culture is quite common these days as sure youknow.
SSeriously though don't give yourself hard time over this. You have a lot on your plate and considering having a child is a lifelong commitment. Maybe in a strange sort of way, you are zort of testing yourself out that you can do this big big committment.
Only you yourself will truly now funky.
No harm with flirting lovely but if it is causing you some difficulty atm with all that is going on, rest easy on that one just now.
Me myself and I funky becoming incredibly boring. Listening to classic fm.
Rock n roll it is not. Lol.
Hope you are having a nice relaxing sunday.
This is a big prob for me.
When im high i am really horny and want sex all the time trouble is i also have a i just dont care attitude im impulsive and reckless and get myself into situations i wouldnt if i were well, im usually all about being safe but when im high this goes out the window ...
The baby thing is irrelevant to this.
I used to be a bit of a terror when drunk, but I've eased off that as trying to be sensible and avoid any triggers... But have still put myself in a tricky situation for the last few months, its a sure sign of my relapse, but the addictive side of my condition / me can't stop... Plus im just so bloody horny!! Sorry. Heehee
im glad its not just mr though, sorry for lowering the tone. Xxx
Sorry, it did make me giggle a little the way you put things funky.:)
Seriously give yourself a big hug. You are a good person.
All I can read from what you say is you maybe getting very flirty with a man friend and it is sort of exciting you and at the same time annoying you, because you love your man.
I probably met you in some dark and dingey public house when I was being a drunken plank myself, way back when.:)
Be a little careful funky. I think your words state what you really want.
I can get obsessive at times, but much more controlled these days.
Take it easy lady.
Am male, had same problem. It passed though once i got over the ego part of 'how many hot chicks I've had.' That took a while though....
Sorry off thread funky.
Big yourself up easy rider. Hot chicks - how is this defined exactly. Lol.:rofl:
Hope you have had a better day funky. Hope work was ok too.:)