And i am shitting myself!![]()
And i am shitting myself!![]()
My thoughts are with you!
I thought i was pregnant once, i'd never been so scared in my whole life..
Have you taken a test ?
Well...the first step is to find out...both times I got that news it was devastating...I was so sick I could barely walk so I had to terminate both...since then I have made darn sure it did not happen again....whatever the result of the test...you have options...not saying that you would make the choices I did...good luck...
Do you have a friend you can trust to confide in who would be able to support you through this uncertain time?
We're all here for you on the forum.
'The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases'. ~ Carl Jung
'I am not who I think I am; I am not who you think I am, I am who I think that you think I am' ~ Charles Horton Cooley
There is a very big chance that iam too. Im really scared. My boyfriend and i have only been together for a month. But both of us have always wanted kids. If iam were going to keep it. But it is very scary and i know how you feel. Im definitely here for you if you need someone to talk to. You can pm me if you wanna compaire symptoms or anything more privately.or heck, i may pm you. Lol.
Lots of hugs lozza
The first thing to do is to find out for sure. Have you taken a pregnancy test? The family planning clinic will do one for you for free.
Is there anyone you can talk to and ask to come with you?
If you can I would suggest going to FPC to have the test done - that way you are in a safer environment should it be a positive result. They can also give you contraception for free to make sure that there is less chance of a similar scare in future.
You know I am always here to talk if you need me and although I'm not about as much anymore you are still more than welcome to PM me.
"So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible.
So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done."
Thanks everyone. Its driving me around the bend am sat here on my bed crying , i havent been able to sleep much and i am already worrying about ' what if' i am and other shit like how if i could be then what do i say to my mate ( one night stand with him) And like what if he wants to keep it and i dont and what if my folks found out they will flip and what if this triggers of depression... thoughts are endless. I am going to take a test tomorrow i think. I am just praying i am late. I have been so emotional these last few days![]()
Novemeber is a hard time for me anyway,so having this bothering me isn't going to help. I am going to tell a friend whos been there for me.
Heads killing![]()
Last edited by lozza; 25-10-11 at 08:20.
I cant wait until friday i am going to get a test tomorrow as my mum is out all day tomorrow.
Huge hugs
Telling your friend is a good idea.
I know November is tough for you and I know it triggers lots of memories but just remember how far you have come since that point..
"So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible.
So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done."
I could have cried when i found out....
I'm not pregnant!